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[quote=Claire_Bear]Mrstkg - I wasn't generalising. I am just putting my situation out there. Everyone's situation is different, of course. This was a person who wouldn't ever have thought of getting in touch with me first at all. If I hadn't done anything, nothing would have happened.  He would not have knocked on my door. I don't see that I have failed because I was the one who had to make the first contact.   [/quote]