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[quote=mrstkg]I am generalising. Now don't get me wrong you're definitely within your rights to follow your instincts, glad it worked in your favor. But my thoughts are, and yes, generally speaking, if you can find their contact information they can do the same. And you think they would especially if they're feeling overwhelmed with thoughts of us. If I can dig through old phone bills, so can he. If I can do a FB search, so can he. When they want something bad enough they find a way...and they love doing it. Ps. The guy I did the test on found a way to contact ME. He let me know he thought about me everyday for months till he just couldn't handle it anymore.I feel my POI can and eventually will swallow his pride (or whatever the delay is) and do the contacting too.[quote=Claire_Bear]Mrstkg - I wasn't generalising. I am just putting my situation out there. Everyone's situation is different, of course. This was a person who wouldn't ever have thought of getting in touch with me first at all. If I hadn't done anything, nothing would have happened.  He would not have knocked on my door. I don't see that I have failed because I was the one who had to make the first contact.   [/quote][/quote]