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[quote=Justine]Hi ladies Just a quick message of support. Continue doing what you do. About 2 months ago I was seeing a guy and he started being really manipulative and mean. Then all of a sudden he ghosted me. It really hurt me. My self confidence hit a wall. I thought I wasn't worthy or good enough. Whenever I was thinking of him I was either sad or really angry. I tried to manifest an apology from him. But it didn't make me feel better. So I started doing self love meditations and self love affirmations Daily. I did the PWM and the whisper technique a few times on him. Not too much though I wanted to keep my energy for creating a new relationship with someone worth my love and worth my time. Although I felt that as long as I couldn't send him unconditional love and forgive him for real I couldnt move on. I had still a lot of "anger" Last night I had a little bit of wine (oops) and texted him for the first time in two months saying that he crossed my mind and that I hope everything was fine with his house (he had lots of problems at the time). He answered a long message, we started chatting. And during the conversation he told me everything I visualized. After I was a little harsh with him telling him that I thought he acted like an ass and that I was still really mad at him and ghosting someone was a terrible thing to do... He said he was really sorry. That he really likes me. That he was an asshole. That I deserved the best, that he wanted to make it up to me. Wanted to see me. I did give him a hard time last night saying everything I had on my heart but he said himself he deserved it :D he even told me he would text me hundred of times just so I could vent until I forgive him 100% so he can ask me out... the key is self love my friends. Love yourself unconditionally. You are worthy. You are beautiful. You are loved. Repeat it to yourself hundred of times everyday. And don't let anyone be mean to you or take advantage of you. I learned my lesson at the time. And now I feel free and can finally move on and let go[/quote]