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[quote=Justine]At first I didnt want to text him. I strongly believe in NC and I also think not having to contact the other person and knowing they will do so just increase your faith. I did it because I didn't care. Maybe because i put myself first and don't try to manifest a relationship with this guy things are different? I texted him for me. Let me explain...if he wouldn't have answered it would've been the missing element for me to let go and it would've confirmed that he was an ass. In the end what I wanted was the opportunity to tell him how I feel to free myself cause I never had the chance to do so. Telling him he should never treat anyone the way he did. That I never deserved to be ignored. The fact that he was almost on his knees willing to take the blame and asking for forgiveness is probably also a reflection of the self confidence I built up during the last few weeks. When I was insecure he was totally ignoring me or was giving me the cold shoulder. I would suggest ho'oponopono, self love, and unconditional love to really forgive and free yourself. Ask the universe for help in order to forgive the person. Imagine a bright light around them and imagine them vanishing and being taken care of by the universe. Don't forget that other people are often a projection of what you are. Try to think only good things about them. Transform the things you don't like by things you would like. You want him to be nicer? Repeat yourself that you're really happy he is such a nice person. You want him to show you his love? Imagine him being this loving person. When you are filled with love you are a magnet for everything. Do the test. Just try to radiate love and look at the number of strangers who are going to randomly say hi or smile at you during the day :) .[/quote]