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[quote=Ratpack][quote=Lindsay]I can't find much information on the Cutting the Cord meditation on the forums so I'm hoping to hear from some of you who have done it.  My situation is a bit unique.  My target left me for another woman months ago.  He lives in another state and though he insisted I was his soulmate, he still left me.  Even though I'm more attractive, have more in common with him and I'm younger than her, she lives closer so she "won."  I'm determined to get him back.  Anyway, I'm wondering if Cutting the Cord is right for me.  I absolutely don't want to cut him out of my life permanent.  Absolutely not!  I'm having trouble with the "letting go and moving on with my life" part of the PW book.  I'm borderline obsessed with this guy.  Can't get him out of my mind.  My feelings range from depression to anger to love to desire to hopefulness to hopelessness.  If cutting the cord would prove to be helpful, how long should I do it before returning to the regular PW meditations?  I want to make him feel he cannot live without me.  That no woman (especially his current one) can ever make him as happy and satisfied as I can.  I want him to NEED me.[/quote] Cutting etheric cords will cut negative cords (obsession, anger, mistrust, etc) while still leaving positive cords (love, emotional attachment, etc) intact. I do CTC after visualizing and do a grounding technique if I start to feel negatively about the situation otherwise. It doesn't hurt the PW. It helps you detach. Obsession is probably the worst thing you can do. CTC is necessary to have success if you're obsessed. Before you do any more techniques to try to manifest him, I would suggest stepping back and doing about a month of self-love techniques. This screams so many bad bad things. What concerned me most is that you want this man to need you and grovel. That's not love. Focus on you so that you can project live instead of needing it from him.[/quote]