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[quote=RainbowUnicorn]Just start small and general. All you have to do is to "feel better" this doesn't mean you have to feel miraculously happy, just do something that makes you "better" however slight / small. Aknowledge the "better" come to understand the things that make you "feel better" - They may not be things that you are "overjoyed" with, but just things that make you feel "better" than whatever you are feeling right NOW. It's not about finding something better than the feeling of if your desires manifested, it's about finding something better than whatever you are currently feeling right now. The more you "feel better" the more you'll come to realize HOW to make yourself feel better, and the less "stuck" you feel. You will think "I enjoy doing X" - maybe X is as simple as soaking in your bathtub, or eating at your favorite restaurant, or maybe X is a big dream going to another country, learning a new hobby / skill, giving back to your community, whatever X is, focus on doing more of X, and look for other things too that make YOU happy. no one here can really tell you what those things are, only you really know your source of happiness. :) Just remember X doesn't have to be a thing that makes you as happy as your love, it just needs to be something that makes you happier than however you are feeling in the current moment. It's okay to not be 100% happy, the goal is just to "feel better" and once you are "consistently feeling better" find a new thing to make you feel even better, and even better, and even better :). Every time you "feel better" you're attracting more of that feeling of "better" :)[/quote]