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[quote=Ratpack][quote=Non]Hi ladies I have been doing Lanirs technique and living in the end and LOA for about 8 months now but I got nothing. My POI broke up with me almost 2 yrs now and we are civil but we haven't spoken in so many months. I'm pretty happy and living my life but he's not here... I know I'm not supposed to wonder when and how but I'm living like he's already here for a while it is getting hard to not notice that he is gone. I'm not doing the technique every night because I get tired and I feel like I don't need to do it cus he is already here. But I guess that's wrong? Should make the effort to do the technique every night?? Please help.. I'm starting to doubt LOA a bit :( Thank you!![/quote] You don't need to do it every night. You may want to do it less, if anything. The problem may be as simple as you're too attached to the outcome. If after 8 months you're still at the point where you notice he's not there and it still bothers you, I would venture to guess that you have resistance from the attachment. Cut the cord and take a break. It's supposed to be fun. It sounds like you're making it a chore.[/quote]