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[quote=Joshbemine]Yes Forgetmenot it is hard to detach even more so when you're friends with them on FB. Today was the first time I actually felt at peace and a knowing that he was going to come into my life permanently, I was sitting having coffee with friends and I felt so happy, my business is even taking off, it was like yes he's mine!! He's here!! It's always these days of detachment that he contacts me though the messages always ends up upsetting me in some way or he posts something on Facebook, and yep there was the post, today's was officially engagement party tonight. So the happy feelings didn't last long not that I feel sad because this has been long drawn out engagement announcement, there is one every week since he got engaged but it left me feeling confused because I don't know how I am suppose to feel when I have already felt the knowing, if you know what I mean. Am I just gullible. He shows no signs of having any love feelings for me at all, so I don't even know if these techniques work. I know they work in a way that they help you cope and love yourself but I don't know about him getting my love and feeling it, because he seems to be getting further and further away from me. I don't think he would even class me as a friend now maybe just an acquaintance…. Ouch!! I am thankful that if I do message him he always replies back and has told me on a few occasion that he is always there for me. I have thought about giving up but my heart and intuition say don't give up on him, be patient. It was my intuition that brought me to him. I don't do the techniques every day anymore only when I feel like it, maybe over time it will stop totally. This is the second guy I have used these techniques on the first guy I didn't get anywhere and lost interest but I wasn't in a good place at the time and I don't want him anyway, didn't tick any of the boxes when I did my list of what I want in a guy and I realise that when this guy came into my life. Not sure where to go from here, whether to believe my knowing feeling that I had all not. Sorry I didn't mean to post such a long post but I have no one else to discuss this with and I had to get it out. I hope you all have great success. Still very confused with my feelings.[/quote]