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[quote=Aliceinwonderland][quote=forgetmenot111]Alice, that's great!! I am still in a place of lack and idk how to change that!![/quote] Hi Foretmenot111, The way I got past the place of lack, was by just pivoting my focus. So, whenever I found myself thinking of the negative things or that he had not come back to me, I just shifted my thoughts to the happiest moments I could recall. No matter what the topic.  Over time I was able to extend the feelings to at least 3 minutes of just feeling those happy thoughts.  I had to train my brain to stop focusing on him, and revised my thoughts to only revisit the good parts if I did think of him.  I also dated other people.  Two other men to be exact and that also helped me detach a bit.  I will say that during my sessions where I used PW and BWD, I always did Lanies cut the cord meditation afterwards, which helped a bit as well. My advise is to continue your practice as long s it feels good to you, remember to cut the cord, and put yourself out there and be open to dating other men while your person gets their act together. In the interim work on raising your vibration and practicing LOA. Just focus on your own happiness and your target will be drawn to you like a magnet. And finally, remember that it is not overnight. Some people get overnight success but many do not. It takes time. It took me nearly 7 months of not seeing my target until he randomly came back out of nowhere.  [/quote]