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[quote=forgetmenot111][quote=babyb]Let me backtrack my story a bit, but in a brief summary. I met my POI a few months ago when I was at a really great standpoint in my life. Pretty much I felt confident and ready to take the world. He was different.. you know that feeling you get in the pit of your stomach where when you are with your special person? It's basically I could feel his vibe was different and special from other people... in my heart I know he's my soulmate. He's actually the guy I let take my virginity. I've always been an overthinker and someone who regrets things but I do not regret this at all. I still stand by my choice to this day. Now back to the story.. so we had been doing great, he has asked me to be his girlfriend and life was just wonderful. Until one day I had gone to the doctor for a physical and was given the typical pregnancy test.... well I think you know where I am going with this. I found out I was pregnant which I didn't understand at the time how it could happen since we were extremely safe. I knew right away that I was keeping this baby every part of my being knew it was the right choice. I told him a week later and he stopped talking to me after that. I even found out (a friend told me) he was on a dating site which of course hurt me for a while. From that point on I focused on myself and tried eliminating him from my mind. Fast forward a few months I had actually had a miscarriage which my doctor had told me was most likely due to stress. I had got a job not to long after this guy stopped talking to me and lets just say it took a toll on me. Soon after I had discovered LOA and was simply drawn to researching EVERYTHING about it. It truly changed my life for the better. In fact strange enough one day I had sat and meditated clearing all grudges I held against my person and about 20 minutes later my person texted me for the first time in months and apologizing and asking to see me. I told him about the miscarriage and he told me he was sorry and everything. He has recently been promoted at his job and moved out on his own so he's been tired and busy but on his day off he he would ask me to hang out so we've been seeing each other once a week since talking again. His actions are wishy-washy, he acts interested one time we hang out (he's flirt and kiss me, ect) but by the next he seems in a more friend like basis.  In fact I started using Lanie's techniques about two weeks ago and has seen results with him. Now here is where I have the most recent confusion last night he texted me asking if I want to come over (he even put a little emoji which he hasn't done since we were dating months back so usually his texts are pretty monotone now) so I waited a bit to respond and told him I'd like to and asked what time he was thinking........ never got a response back. Why would someone ask that and not reply back? Any advice for his bipolar feelings?  I made this story a little more vague to summarize it but I am confused on all ends. I wish you all good luck on your manifesting and appreciate you all xoxo[/quote] Hi babyb! I'm sorry to hear what you recently went through. As for your POI, men are a little kooky. My POI exhibited wishy washy actions our entire few months together. I don't understand it. In fact his reason for ending things is he told me he was getting the feeling that we're in a friend zone. But, it seems as if your POI doesn't really know what he wants. It's possible he's asked you to hang out to gauge your interest level & then because he can tell from your response that you're interested, he doesn't respond. Maybe he's trying to keep you on a hook for when it's convenient for him or when he wants which obviously is not fair. You said you've had some success with Lanie's techniques on him. How so? What have you done/ what was your success? Perhaps you can incorporate him telling you what you want to hear regarding him ending being wishy washy. Or why he's been wishy washy?? I'm interested to hear your successes!!    [/quote]