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[quote=babyb][quote=forgetmenot111]First of all - congrats on manifesting a date with him. I would definitely call it that being that you went together and he paid for everything. May I ask, is he in his 20s-early 30s? I just know from my own experience with my POI, who just turned 31 that he's clearly very confused about what he wants. I haven't mastered using PW. I think I include too many things in 1 session for him to say to me. Anyway, enough about my issue. As for you, I would continue doing PW as you've already had success. I wouldn't stress too much because you not only have had contact, you've been out together. I would play it by ear. See if you could see him again and feel the vibe out. If you continually see each other & he still continues the same wishy washy behaviors, not looking you in the eye, etc. I would try to talk to him about it. Put your emotions out there. Not too crazy, but have a conversation. But it seems to me he wants the best of both worlds but doesn't want to fully commit.[/quote] Thank you so much for your commentary! I'm excited to hear about your successes on here as well. I've noticed when doing PW its easier to start out with a few things (also things that are "smaller" and you can slowly build up you have that confidence and it feeds into your "bigger" things you want) and as they manifest you begin to incorporate newer things. As if you are building up the relationship with your POI from scratch. I always use the example that PW is like an exercise. You never want to do to much where it can overwhelm you so your take baby steps until you build the muscle.  I've always wondered if maybe my POI's  age played a part in his attitude. I'm 20 and he's 21 about to turn 22 in a few months. So I'm trying to keep my mindset that if I wan't him to commit I just gotta up my manifesting game!  I'm definitely going to be taking all your advice and incorporating it in. You've mentioned some great points and I really appreciate the feedback[img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png[/img][/quote]