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[quote=jenny3175][quote=LearningToDetach][quote=jenny3175]Hey everyone! So I wanted to share my success story on here because I know how much it helped me when I was having my moments of self doubt. I want to start off by saying that I [b][u][i]did not[/i] [i]use only[/i][/u][/b] Lanie's technique. I used a combination of a few which I know for a fact, all contributed to my manifestation. I will explain it all here. I am extremely sorry for the long post, but I want to say everything step by step how I manifested. I met a guy about 3 months ago and I instantly knew he was special and different from any other guy I had met or dated before. He lives in another country, however (which is proof it doesn't matter AT ALL how far away your person is). We continued talking, and as you all may know, we manifest things, experiences, and the people in our lives (including the negativity we think about them). Because of some trust issues I had in the past, I started to doubt this guy and OF COURSE he felt my negativity (without me even having to say anything) and he pulled away. We used to talk every day and suddenly that stopped. One day he said he felt overwhelmed by everything between us and he stopped calling and texting as much. When we would talk, it was bland and he even accused me of some things. I knew for a fact I had manifested this into my life, and quite frankly, I was devastated. Instantly, I turned to the LOA to change my situation and circumstances, as I have used the LOA plenty of times before with success.  I found out about Lanie's PW technique in March and used it for my ex (not the guy I mentioned above). However, I was not consistent with it and while I was doing it, I did not feel utmost love for him. And as soon as I would finish the meditation and go about my day, I found myself doubting his love for me and once again, those trust issues crept into me. So, I knew I had to not only use PW but also change the way I was using it and how I was reacting and acting outside of the meditation. Remember everyone, it DOES NOT end in the meditation. You have to literally change your thought process, how you react and act while going through this heartbreak.  I first started watching a few youtubers that I adored, that spoke about how to manifest a specific person. Specifically, I watched Agnes Vivarelli and Veronica Isles. I followed everything they said (or at least most things). I started doing self love affirmations and meditations. I stopped acting like a victim and realized that I was the one that manifested this heartbreak in my life. Like Agnes says "everyone is you pushed out" (you MUST watch her videos on this topic). I stopped thinking about the negative things about my guy, and I acted as if the situation didn't even happen. Every morning I would wake up and thank the universe for bringing me and my guy back together. I would think about all of the things I was grateful for about him. Even things that he wasn't, that I wanted him to be, I would state how grateful I was for those qualities. This is the process of acting "as if".  I would also go about my day and not think or dwell on the situation because I truly believed that the universe was bringing my guy to me and I knew in my heart and believed that he was already mine. I would also say affirmations when I was having doubts or feeling negative. Some of the affirmations include "isn't it wonderful that ____ called me and told me how much he misses me, and how he's sorry for everything, and how much he loves me". Along with other affirmations (you can make up any you want). I would go about my life and not sit around moping and being depressed or crying (because obviously you wouldn't do that if you were with your person- you would be happy and go about your life because you already know they are yours).  Every morning and night I would do either one of Agnes Vivarelli's self love meditations, or her whispering techniques and I would do Lanie's PW. Sometimes I would do both in one sitting or I would alternate (do one at night and another in the morning). I said my self love affirmations every single time I was having doubts or was having those trust issues again. So for the [u][b]MOST IMPORTANT PART:[/b][/u] when doing Lanie's techniques, or any meditation for your specific person, you MUST and I repeat, you MUST be in a deep meditative state, in your subconscious mind. You must literally be able to feel the shift from your conscious mind to your subconscious mind and that is where you do the technique. Even if that state lasts for a mere minute, you imagine WHATEVER it is you want that person to say to you- even if you only manage to imagine them saying "I love you"- because that is better than nothing right? As you continue doing this, you will get better at it.  Long story short (yes, I know this post is long, I am sorry!) - almost everything I imagined my person saying and doing- came true. He WAS a very stubborn person that never admitted certain things to me. After he pulled away for about 4 days, and I started doing all of these things, he called me on the phone and said such romantic things and even "I love you". And this is coming from a very hard headed person, that lives more than 3,000 miles away. So trust me everyone, this DOES work. It is inevitable, but it is really only up to you. He even had a dream about me! Please DO NOT give up. I want all of you on here to get your specific person back! [/quote] Thank you for the story. My person is 13,000 km away and we have been in no contact since I learnt about LoA.... So that's 4 months now. Thank you for the uplifting story. I have a lot to work on especially feeling like I already have him. I don't know how to get into deep meditative state tho... Any advice on that? Thank you so much :).[/quote] Hey hun! I totally feel you as I have been there. I really suggest you watch Agnes Vivarelli and Veronica Isles on YouTube. They have wonderful videos that helped me. Whenever you’re having those moments of self doubt- repeat self love affirmations or immediately catch yourself in the moment and think of a happy moment between you two.. something that made you laugh or smile. This helped me tremendously. Keep telling yourself it isn’t impossible and you CAN have him. As for a deep meditative state, I recommend meditating either right in the morning or before bed (once during both times is preferable). Your mind will probably wander a lot and that’s something I am working on right now and it’s what usually stops people from getting into that state. I suggest looking up YouTubes or articles online on how to stop wandering thoughts during meditation. As I mentioned above, I have a few techniques I use to get into alpha and theta state. Such as listening to binaural beats while meditating, counting down from 30 to 1 and other techniques I found on YouTube. Use what’s best for you, play around with a few. When you find that you’re sitting there for 15 or more minutes and can’t meditate, stop doing it and come back to it. I know we are all in a rush to get our person back so we feel like we have to do it NOW. But you’re doing your mind more harm by forcing it rather than letting it take a break and come back to it the next day or in a few hours. Meditation is a practice like anything else but it can easily be done. Remember, you are striving for that shift from your conscious to subconscious mind (like that feeling you feel when you’re sleep and shift from being awake to being sleepy). Hope this helped![/quote]