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[quote=jenny3175][quote=forgetmenot111][quote=jenny3175][quote=forgetmenot111] I love your enthusiasm! Quick question. I know in Lanie’s book she mentioned she had dated other men in the interim of her poi returning. What’re your thoughts on this? Someone told me on another forum that it’s not good to do. I’m confused. Also, I had done visualizations and meditations on the regular for a month or two. I’ve been so busy lately and I’m honestly in a great place. I’m happy and things I say I’d like manifest (aside from my POI lol). Anyway, I guess my question is, if I were to date a little and not do my visualizations/meditations too often, will my POI still be mine in the physical realm? I feel like we’re on a detour and we’ll find our way back together in the physical realm eventually. Thoughts?? Thanks!! xx[/quote] Hi again! Well to be honest, while awaiting my POI I tried talking to other guys (only to realize that other guys were nothing like my POI) and I felt the connection between me and my POI dissipate more because (in my opinion), I wasn’t leaving room for him in my life, since other guys were falling for me and wanting to stay in my life. As soon as I stopped talking to other guys and dating, my POI came back. In Agnes’ videos she talks about how, are we dating because we are filling a void (that’s not self love), or really what’s the purpose of you going on other dates if you love someone else? (Is it because you have doubts that you and your POI won’t get back together so you are subconsciously dating others?) It really depends on your reasoning behind it. If you feel and believe he will come back despite the dating others, then that’s fine but make sure it’s REALLY what you believe. I hope this helped! And again, this is just my take and view on this specific topic, I know it’s different for others :)[/quote] Ok so how do I keep the faith when I see that I have visible proof that my POI is talking to new girls? HELP! 🙈 I think that’s what’s freaking me out.[/quote] You need to watch Agnes Vivarelli on YouTube. She is an expert on this and you must specifically watch her "everyone is you pushed out" series. Believe me, it changed my life! [/quote]