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[quote=Alexia_Michelle]9[quote=forgetmenot111][quote=Alexia_Michelle][quote=forgetmenot111]That's great! And makes much sense. I know it's been said that no situation is too unique or complicated to work, but my guy and I were casually dating for 8 months. But I truly believe we're perfect for each other. Plus he definitely demonstrates signs of being scared of commitment. So with the proper thinking, self love, no clingy or desperate feelings, you think he and I could wind up together?[/quote] Dear Forgetmenot111, the one person who can answer that question is you. If you strongly believe that he is the one and that you deserve to be with him, NOTHING (not even his fear of commitment) and NOBODY in this world can stop you. The only person who can stop you from being with him is yourself. You are the sole determinant of your future with him. Know what, I think you should stop thinking that he is afraid of commitment. Put a new mindset and say to yourself that, right now, he is ready to be commited to you😉[/quote] THANK YOU! I didn't even think of saying an affirmation such as the one about him being ready to be committed to me. The more I say that, the more and more I will believe it (and him too for that matter!). Just out of curiosity, when you did your visualizations, did you replay the same one over and over again or would you change up the types of things you'd have him say to you? Also, I have an opportunity to go out on a date. I know you said you dated someone in the interim. However, I was wondering, does this confuse the Universe? Especially if I have a good time on the date..  Thanks :) [/quote] Sometime i replayed the same things, sometimes there were some new "ideas" popped up. Since i'm doing it again now, i now have more variety/options of backgrounds which i think is fun lol. And believe me, the universe knows the difference between your real intention and the time to enjoy your life. Both i believe are positive actions. Unless the case is you wish to have him in your life (positive) but you're wondering why he haven't call you yet (negative). See the difference?  [/quote]