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[quote=Jag123][quote=unicornsnrainbows]This is a wonderful story, Jag!  I'm so curious to know how/where you bumped into each other.  Yes, you did create that.  It IS possible to have the relationship you dream of...the "trick" is to keep your eye on the prize while moving through present reality.  You've already proven to yourself that miracles happen once you release your tight grip, so can you continue to do that while basking in the feeling of your perfect relationship?  Perhaps it's easier to conjure the feeling of it without attaching a face to it.  Ah, the delicate balance of feeling and believing in an unseen reality, while remaining present in the here and now (i.e. staying present in your life without concerning yourself with his).  Thank you for sharing.[/quote] Hi Unicorn Thank you! I was on my way back from somewhere and he was on his way back from somewhere else, we bumped into each other in a taxi queue.  It was one of those things I had  read about in books. We were literally astonished,  I woke up the morning aftet we spent the morning and early afternoon together, and couldn't quite believe it happened.  If you read my old posts you'll know why. The advice you have given is wonderful. Because I was so focussed on myself before I barely thought about relationships.  If I did I kept it very general, so now this very specific thing has happened, should I force myself to stay general?  When I think about me and him, I don't go to desired reality I go to a  "but could it actually work" reality.  You are right, we don't attach a face to make something happen.  We do it to feel  good and like it's a normal occurrence - thus stay in alignment.  If it doesn't feel good, stay in the present and practice gratitude. I'm going to keep up the selfish living. Thank you for your help! What might be interesting would be to do the Love Spell now while I have little attachment  to the outcome  I would be curious to see the results now there has been some contact. ... Was very happy to share .  It really does work in ways you least expect and when you truly let go![/quote]