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[quote=KateyBerry][quote=unicornsnrainbows]I'm going to ask the question that seems to always pop up:  How long were you apart for, and did you have any contact at all during that time?  [/quote] Hey Pretty Unicorn Girl, All in all, we were apart for a little over a year; about 14 months. A few more details here: We had contact about six months into my working the techniques, but I got hyper and we argued, and it was a whole messy thing. So a couple of weeks after that I stopped the techniques because I was just TIRED. He was still on my mind, I could still 'feel' him, but I couldn't bring myself to give him any more of my energy. About two months later, I made peace with the possibility that I might never connect with him again; so I let the whole thing go. Again, I still thought of him and felt him, but the emotional charge and the desperation to make it happen was gone.  A month later, he contacted me. We spoke and I was kind, but I wasn't pressed to make anything happen - and THAT has made all the difference in the world. The only thing I'm doing at this point is  1) going with the flow, and 2) expressing gratitude for everything good that has happened; and it's all turning out the way I imagined.[/quote]