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[quote=nimzyy92][quote=Piper]Hmmm...here's what I think: I feel as though it got serious WAY too fast. That's if I'm reading what you wrote correctly. If you are already talking/asking about marriage so soon into a relationship, this can freak some guys out and they will run.  Also, remember that everyone is you pushed out, so, if you were feeling insecure, then that is what will come out in the relationship. Believe me, I struggle with this sometimes too, as do a lot of people, I'm sure. It's a matter of getting your thinking straight. And, no offense, but it seems as though you had overreacted to some things. Clearly, it was early in the relationship, and when we overreact to small things so early, this is not a good sign for later on. Some might believe that the relationship would be a constant fight. I would definitely work on that. Again, my boyfriend is a button pusher so I have to constantly be aware of how I react to him so it doesn't become more than him messing with me. Being sensitive is ok to a point, but can wreak havoc when we are involved with people that have certain personalities. IF you feel as though you want to try and work it out, you should start with PW, because this will help to bring his feelings out. Just be very thoughtful about what you hear him say. You could also do the spell, which made a difference in my relationship after an icky fight we had. BUT, please really think hard and long about being with him. Make sure he is truly what you want before you begin. And, use the cord cutting meditations after because you seem too attached to the outcome and to him. Also, work on yourself and realize that you don't need anyone to be happy. I have been repeating a phrase just because I want the best relationship with my guy, and it makes me feel amazing. We are currently awesome, but I will willingly put the work into it to keep it that way. The phrase is: "Divine love is doing its perfect work within mine and W's relationship."  Hope my post helps a little. Sorry if it didn't.[/quote] Thank you for your reply.  You're I did overreact in the beginning, he said we had different expectations.  I think I need to do self-love meditation and then PW. Which spell is that? I have blocked because I didn't want things to get worse and we both need to cool off and think about the situation.[/quote]