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[quote=LetItBe][color=#222222]I also posted this on another forum, so my apologies if this is a repeat for anyone. [/color] First, a little background (I'll try to be brief, so I don't bore you!) I am married, but I have not been happy for a number of years, and I stay mostly out of sympathy. My husband has a lot of mental issues, and I know my leaving will not help those, but I also know I can't sacrifice my happiness forever. I have a male friend, quite a bit older (I'm 38 and he's 61) that I have very strong feelings for, and I do want to be with him. I've tried visualizing myself and him together, happy, while my husband is out of the picture and content elsewhere (presumably divorced from me, and in a new, loving relationship.)  So my first question is, do I need to be visualizing the ultimate end result or should I be trying to manifest smaller pieces of this puzzle, like my divorce, or my friend revealing that he feels the same as me, etc. Or is that putting too much focus on the "how it will happen?" My second question is, how much of this do I need to be handling in my current life? For example, do I initiate the divorce or try to manifest it coming from my husband? Or, do I reveal my feelings for my friend (who I doubt has any idea that I'm feeling as I do for him), or try to manifest him coming to me? I don't want to pick the fruit before it's ripe! I also find it hard to live in the end with so many steps needed to make this end result happen, which is why I was wondering if I needed to focus on the steps in between more.  [color=#222222]Any guidance you could give me would be greatly appreciated! [/color][/quote]