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[quote=Lanie Stevens]You don't need to focus on the steps.  In fact, that will hinder your progress in manifesting.  Why?  Because that's logical thinking and YOU trying to solve the problem and not living in the end result. Before making major changes in your life it may be a good idea to see how your male friend feels about you and your relationship.  When you are in a loveless relationship it's easy to become very emotionally involved when you're shown love, kindness and passion.  And that's understandable.  Many people would say just visualize that your friend will fall for you and there will be a happily ever after.  But I believe it's best to be on the same page, especially when you have so much to lose. You're right, you can't sacrifice your happiness forever and I hope you don't.  If you are not happy your husband may not be happy, either.  I would visualize him finding peace and happiness because it will make it so much easier for all involved.  xoxoxoxoxo[/quote]