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[quote=Piper]The first thing you should probably do is figure who/what you want. What makes you happy? Not WHO makes you happy, because we should be doing that on our own and not rely on another to do that for us. If you want to work it out with your husband, you can change how he feels about you, but you have to do the work (techniques) and believe in them. If you don't want to continue your life with him, leave him and move on with your life. Don't stay with him just because the other guy is not willing to leave his marriage. If you want the other guy, then do the same as above. BUT, since he's already married, you should probably set down some ground rules - he has to fully leave his wife before a full relationship takes place between you. In the meanwhile, see other people and get yourself happy. This is just what I would advise, but perhaps some other members would be willing to give their 2 cents.[/quote]