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[quote=Ron0630]Thank you both for the advice. If I could choose, it would be with the other man. I have never had a connection with anyone like I had with him. I could be completely me, without having to worry about everything I say and do, which is how things are with my husband. I do struggle to leave my husband, though. It could be a fear thing. I also am pretty sure he has been gaslighting me. So crazy making/ manipulation, which also keeps me under his thumb. I want this other guy to decide I am the one for him. He’s been there before. I just want to get him back there. He’s in an unhappy marriage too, but I guarantee it’s the money, the house, the truck, the camper that keeps him there. There is financial security in his marriage.He has been married before and his wife took everything in the divorce. What would you focus on to release these fears and get him back to that mental state?[/quote]