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[quote=lavendernova101]Update: I didn't do too well with the last month with no contact... He wanted to just be friends after. Obviously I wanted more and still love him. He's said he doesn't want to be with me, I'm not the one, and he doesn't love me anymore. We did have a great relationship, really great one. We were best friends and still great in the sexual department so when he left me I was really shocked. He's said to me he won't be with me making me happy "at least not anytime soon. " then saying it's not going to happen and being slightly angry at me. I understand now why no contact is so important, but so difficult. In order to be feeling more positive, no contact is so crucial and I wish I wouldve been strong enough to deal with it before now. But I think that's important to say... It's actually such a good thing to be no contact so you're not focusing on the lack in physical reality yet. We still could be in contact, but I'm really trying here and I know I shouldn't contact him anymore. I hope I didn't screw up too much in this time. I want to really let him miss me, and give pw some time to really sit on him. This has just been very hard for me and i miss him so much, but I want to come back with a success story and give more people hope as well and be a testimonial. When I'm starting to feel negative, I try to read through good stories on the forum. Also, it seems like this forum is a little slow lately!! Did everyone just end up getting their people? :P Also, I was wondering if this pw thing could work on like a person that you don't know what looks like, but also in whatever way you imagine, like not romantic, but you don't know their appearance? I just wanted to update with my story, so I can update again with a big turnaround at some point. I'd love for this thread to be taken as a reference of amazing things that can happen as I continue on with the techniques. Thanks for anyone that replies :D[/quote]