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[quote=RubyLooToo][quote=Emma]Prior to reading the response on the other forum were you feeling the connection?? Just ignore the comments on the other forum, i'm not sure which one you mean but i'm also part of another and sometime find the comments abit harsh at times so i prefer to read this one, i would like this one to be more active though. I personally don't think there's anything wrong, immoral  or anything else with PW or BWD aslong as they are being used for good intentions.  I'm not sure if perhaps if you are doubting the connection during PW then thats why he's fading? I think the key to it is definitely relaxing, do you use Lanie's meditations, i find these help me. I know i still worry about being connected or not but i guess we have to trust we are connected and they are feeling it. I'm still very new to this myself so i can't offer much advice other than i have seen some little changes in my SP and I've done nothing else but PW and BWD. [/quote] Hi Emma, thank you for responding! Yes, I was definitely feeling a connection with my POI prior to reading the other forum. I envisioned a cord of light between our crown chakra and solar plexus chakra too. After reading the other forum I think my trust in the techniques had taken a bashing, and I subconsciously had my doubts. I have not felt any resistance from my POI during the techniques, in fact quite the opposite, especially during BWD 😊. However, I did cut back on BWD before i read the other forum because I had read that too many thoughts of desire can sometimes scare the SP, particularly if they don't know you that well. My POI and I have only met twice, through work. We work for the same employer, but he is on a different site to me, about 6 miles away. I don't get to see him so I have no idea of his reaction to the techniques. He did visit our offices the other day, but I didn't see him. I am trusting that this works, and that the universe will set things up so that he will make contact with me when the time is right for both of us. I only send loving (and sometimes lustful 😉 with BWD) thoughts to him. I did watch one of Agnes Vivarelli's meditation video's on YouTube yesterday evening. During the meditation, just as I became drowsy, and relaxed, I started to slip into PW with my POI. It felt relaxed and natural. I do have some of Lanie's meditations on my phone but I can't get them to work. Thank you once again for taking the time to respond![/quote]