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[quote=Mcleanie77][quote=RubyLooToo][quote=Mcleanie77][quote=RubyLooToo]I had been practicing PW and BWD on my POI for about 2 months. I have been enjoying the techniques, and have felt very good about myself and my POI, trusting the universe to deliver him when the time is right for both of us. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of visiting another forum, and posting a question. The response was not very positive about PW or BWD. And I left feeling that what I had been doing was wrong, if not a little amoral. Nevertheless, I reread Lanie's books, decided I wasn't doing anything to hurt my POI, and decided to continue where I left off. However, I can't seem to get anything past the start: I call out to my POI, he is waiting for me with a smile. Takes my hands, we start to kiss, and then he starts to fade away, looking worried. I know this is coming from me, and not him. Does anyone have any hints or ideas? I feel very tense when I am trying to connect, maybe I should try relaxing. Thanks for any help you can suggest, lovely Ladies 😊[/quote]   Sweetie, these techniques are supposed to be fun and empowering! I think we all take these techniques way to too serious and we worry about every aspect of it. Like if we are doing it right or is it really working that hinders our success. I also wanted to make sure this was ok doing and not some how negatively affecting me or the person. The more studying I did about these techniques the science slash spiritual side I came to find out if you are doing it with LOVE in mind and that’s ALL you’re sending them then I didn’t see anything wrong with it. ESPECIALLY because in “reality” we are all connected we are all one big collective consciousness. 🌍 We connect with other people’s mind not even realizing we are doing it and if we are focused it’s even more affective!! We are living in a Mental universe a “Thought World” every single thing is affected by our thoughts. Lanie talks about it in her books! Girls if I could give any of you advice if you’re doubting your capabilities do a little bit research on entanglement and also telepathy there’s tons of research out there! Also This is a huge thing I had to learn as well “THEY WILL CHANGE WHEN “YOU”CHANGE!!” YOU have to change first!! This has never been about anyone else but YOU!!!! This is a quote from NG “ NOTHING HAPPENS OR CONTINUES IN BEING BY A POWER OF ITS OWN! EVENTS HAPPEN BECAUSE COMPARATIVELY STABLE IMAGINAL ACTIVITIES CREATED THEM AND THEY CONTINUE IN BEING ONLY AS LONG AS THEY RECEIVE SUCH SUPPORT”. You should read up on the capabilities of our minds along with Lanie’s techniques and you will never have any doubts!!!💝[/quote] Hi McLeanie77, thank you for responding! I think you are right. After visiting the other forum I stopped approaching the techniques from a fun stance. I was very uptight and it felt forced and unnatural, and I feel I had stopped believing that the techniques work. I did visit one of Agnes Vivarelli's YouTube videos on meditation yesterday evening, and during the meditation, whilst feeling very relaxed and drowsy, I just slipped into PW with my POI. It felt fun, and loving and natural. I have always approached both PW and BWD from a place of love and respect, with a smattering of lust applied to the latter (!), as I would not wish anything bad on my POI. He has never resisted any of my connections, in fact I no longer have to call him over, he is waiting for me 😊. I felt very good about myself after the meditation, and let go. I have also been practicing one of Agnes's self love meditations. You are spot on when you say it is all about me and not my POI. I have stopped daydreaming about him and think of me, and my life. I only visit him during PW or BWD. I have also read the book by Amargi Hillier. And of course I love Neville's teachings. It makes sense that if we change our attitude we will change our vibration. Thank you once again for your insightful response! I will definitely look more into entanglement and telepathy. 😊[/quote]   Oh I hope I didn’t offend you with that comment about sending negative thoughts to him I just meant in general for everyone 😂 I’m so happy you sound like you’re on the right track keep going girlie!! You got this!! It’s funny I do a mix of the techniques myself that just seems better for me too! 💝[/quote]