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[quote=madone87][quote=Piper][quote=madone87][quote=Piper] People like to state their opinion and their limiting beliefs and that is why i never share any work i am doing with anyone who is not of the same mindset as me. If it is a true desire, continue doing what you're doing. If, however, it is an ego baded want, you will tire of it and eventually give up. This is my experience and others i know. My belief is there is no one outside if you - everything comes from within and we are the cause if everything in our lives, including the bad shit. If we went through a break up, it's our fault because of our beliefs we held about that person/situation. So, to get someone back you much first take responsibility that you caused it and then go within and do the work from there. Some like to focus on self love, and that's important, but you also need to change your perspective and beliefs about that person. Just my 2 cents.[/quote] Thank you Piper for taking the time to give your input.  Yes, I have learned my lesson that I won't simply share anything about my thing to anybody including my closest friends.  I do get tired honestly but certainly not coming from ego. This is my heartiest desire ever though he asked me if I'm still hoping on him and gone distant. I want to ask him so badly but I don't want to seem as clingy and needy and make things worse. :( So what would be your suggestion then? Just put aside and solely focus on myself for the time being? And believe he comes back and he is indeed coming back? [/quote] He is YOU, and you are him. Everything/everyone is just a projection of your inner self - it's an illusion. You cannot change anything on the outside until you first change you. Focus on changing your beliefs of him and don't think of him as being separate from you - he is you. Read LOTS of Neville and you will understand. I don't practice any techniques except Neville techniques and pw, since it is Nev based. You should work on self love if you think that's important. I also don't believe the "this or something better" stuff. A desire is a gift, and it must be so.[/quote] So from now onwards, I need to change my perception about him and work strongly on myself first? Today i reached out for him after 2 days, he replied he was so busy and yada yada yada (well he used to spend some time thou he was so damn bz back then). Yes i do read Neville's too. But too many of it, hardly grasp. Me either. i dont believe on someone better cuz since we are conscious creator, we can manifest something better in that person.  [/quote]