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[quote=Aliceinwonderland]So after using lanies methods to attract someone, I did. I fell hard and fast. You can refer to my other post about using LOA and lanies methods to attract someone new. Anyway, he was seemingly what I had been waiting for. Sadly he turned out to be a womanizer. Long story short, while he was gaming me , talking about how he was ready to make me his future wife and go on vacations , baring his poor little hurt soul to me, he was also chatting up a young stripper on Instagram. (I found this out after the fact). We just went on a vacation together and finally had sex. Afterwards he texted often and everything seemed fine. Then he disappeared for two weeks and I come to find he took this stripper on vacation! I was GUTTED. We weren’t exclusive yet but still, it hurts to know he was doing this the entire time. I called him out on disappearing but learned only after about his stripper vacation so he doesn’t know I know. He never apologized or acknowledged me calling him out so we havent spoken in awhile. And I presume this is over. Obviously This guy is a true womanizer to his core. But he’s been in a couple long term relationships since I’ve known him (approx 4 years - as casual acquaintances). I guess I’m wondering if ts possible to create the version of him you want. Not sure why I’d even want him back - I’ll have to check my self esteem and self worth and get back to you on that one. Right now it’s more of a selfish reason, just so I can get him hooked and then dump him Unceremoniously. He gamer me now it’s time to game him. Has anyone had luck changing a player/ womanizer into a decent human who can commit to one woman Or is this a lost cause? Please don’t judge me for wanting to mess with his head a bit, I’m still wounded.[/quote]