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[quote=Justaspeckintheuniverse][quote=Jennyfers24]Here’s my story… I as dating a guy who absolutely adored me. We talked about marriage. Went shopping for rings. He treated me like a princess. Always made sure I smiled. I wasn’t mentally there because I just cane out of an awful marriage and I had walls up. I was cheated on and so was he so we both knew we would never do that to each other. We disagreed on things & I felt smothered at first. He told me I went out too much. Hated when I would text my friends. I would always get defensive. But we had such an amazing connection. We laughed SO MUCH!! But he would ALWAYS make sure I was happy! He bent over backwards for me. We had the cutest relationship. He always said “you will be stuck with me forever because I’m not going anywhere “. Then we had a big hurdle to overcome, I was given an opportunity to move to a diff state. It was my dream. He was DEVASTATED. Sobbed!! But told me he would follow. After I left he started applying for jobs where I was living. Then he started to get weird. Long story short, he pulled away n got distant out of no where. The person I was staying with told him I didn’t love his daughter! Idk why she said that but obviously he wouldn’t speak to me! Did a complete 360 like someone I didn’t know. I came back for him. Dropped everything. Was only prob gone a total of 4 weeks. I fought for him. He said I was crazy. And now it’s to the point he acts like he doesn’t know who I am. When I see him, he looks at me and will not speak to me. I’m so completely heartbroken. I have so much guilt and regret for leaving even tho he said he was coming. It’s been 10-11 months now but nothing has changed! I’ve had him on a pedestal for so long. I know I need to let go but idk how. I feel if I truly let go it’s telling the universe “ok...I don’t care anymore. Take him on another journey!” Every few months I would try to reach out but nothing. The only thing that gave me hope was the fact that he still has all my family and friends on his Facebook!! He still reaches out to my brother via text for random things every so often! Over Fathers Day weekend he texted my brother to say hi. He also said how much he misses everyone including me!! I became so happppppyyy!! My gf tried reaching out and he’s told her he’s with someone?? But his stories don’t match up. He’s all over the place. I’m crushed!!!! I don’t want to give up bc I love him so very much...still!!! I’ve asked the Universe for signs n it always delivers but nothing ever comes to! However, the other day I was feeling awful. Cried n cried and asked for a sign that he does miss n love me as much as I do him and that we will be reunited in a loving committed relationship. A few hours later I ran into his mom and daughter while I was shopping!! I feel like this is so hopeless! I’ve tried all the techniques. Agnes videos! But I go by his actions. If he truly missed me he would reach out. I’m still blocked on fb n his phone 😞 Also he’s told me he doesn’t love me anymore. There is no shot...ever for us! I can’t see how this would change if he’s not feeling the same. PLEASE HELP!![/quote]   Your gf is lying to sabotage what you have. Forgive her and tell him you will see him again someday, because you have saboteurs to sort out.[/quote]