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[quote=BelleFleur][quote=Cahira]I know it works. I tried it for a cat. I got my cat last December and he was terrible shy, he just didn't like to be touched at all, would hiss or hit people etc. People told me I should give up on him but I decided: no, he will be a normal and happy cat. There were times, weeks and months that followed where I doubted it sometimes but I decided again: nope, he will be perfectly fine and happy. I had experience with stray cats that never were socialized but believe me none of them was such a "tough" case like this one. And only four weeks ago all of a sudden this cat comes to me and starts to purr! From then on he became totally lovely and happy and self confident and he's exactly as I had imagined him!  But for my guy there's truly a lot resistance that I have to lose. For example, I try to trust in him and think positive but I catch myself arguing with him in my mind. But I have to say since I went NC I get more and more relaxed and the imagination that we will find each other somehow, pictures of us enjoying traveling or raising a child together come to me more easily.[/quote] This reminds me of a story from Neville Goddard's Seedtime and Harvest.  A woman had a sick cat and he told her to imagine him well.  Well, the cat recovered and lived several more years.  I was just bitching and complaining about men (including my POI) and your post reminded me of that story and how powerful we can be.  It helped me to snap out of it so thank you!  We can plant positive seeds in a person but it's hard because we keep going back to the behavior that we're used to getting.  Tonight I will script him as I want him to be and hopefully that will raise my vibe.[/quote]