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[quote=FlygirlDee]Hello everyone. I could use some advice please... I have been using LOA for almost a year since my ex initiated a breakup after 3 yrs relationship. I was totally blindsided and devastated - even though we’d had some tough times the previous few months due to his crazy ex-wife, my awful job, and some of his betraying behaviour - connecting with a woman in the media and lying to me about his whereabouts, letting me discover on social media- that hurt.... Things eventually weighed too heavy and it broke us even though I was prepared to push through it. He told me on Christmas Day he had fallen out of love with me. That my words wounded him. He was afraid of that. I joined a program to get your ex back and followed its strategy. No contact for 58 days and a texting phase with mostly me initiating but sometimes him too. We also met up unplanned a number of times which was so coincidental. First time, he was very emotional. One of the later times, he kissed me and hugged me and held me...I was assured he still had feelings... I did a lot of work - reading, processing to heal, all of Lanie’s meditations PW, love spell, occasionally BWD... and other healing meditations. Last few weeks I had started to feel really good and hopeful. I turned 40 last week and he messaged me at 6am to wish me Happy Birthday with kisses xx I was getting excited! That was a big gesture I thought..... That was until I found out he was in a new relationship and had gone on holidays a few days ago- she posted a pic of their legs entwined on a bed, watching the sunset. I was devastated. We exchanged some tense text messages as he has been appearing to be reluctant to return my things even after all this time. I was sure my manifestation was finally nearing. Now this 💔 I have barely ate or slept since, thinking that all my work has been pointless. I have shied away from lots of dating offers.. my heart just isn’t it. I’m in good shape, new job, new home and have been busy. I just don’t know where to go from here... :-( I’d appreciate some guidance from those who might offer wise words.... 🙏🏼 thank you[/quote]