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[quote=Flower293][quote=AnnanWater][quote=carly100]it's concerning that you haven't heard anything in months of doing the technique though. It's supposed to work "every time" and be "simple and easy", but still no contact. It confuses me, and some ways felt like the technique has been bigged up to be something that it's not. Granted I've just started my journey, but fear creating an unhealthy obsession with my POI[/quote] I've been doing it for a year on the same person, with only one bit of contact from him last September. I will not reach out to to him I will let him come to me. It feels discouraging when I think about how long I've been doing this but my feelings for him remain the same and no one else better has come along for me so I will still keep going despite all the lack of evidence that it's working.[/quote]   Hi AnnanWater Just wanted to say, don’t worry and hang on in there!!! Dont get caught up in the ‘been doing it for x-amount of time and still heard nothing’ as being a focus based universe, you will only get more of it and hence the “lack” cycle. Everyone has their own timescales as we all got our stuff on our paths and journeys that we have to sort through to get to where we want to be. The amount of time isn’t an issue and isn’t comparable. No one is better, or faster it’s just all at different stages. Everyone’s journey is unique. That’s what makes it all so special 😊 Also look around and try to find things to appreciate...someone was mentioning that they looked back to 3months ago and they have come so far....this is an awesome way to look at things and get that vibe up and keep it there. (In fact something have just started doing and is working wonders for my vibe!) Things ARE happening and you HAVE to believe that, it’s just maybe not in the way you want it, hence you do not see, but that doesn’t meant that things are not moving. Also get him off that pedestal. He isn’t the goal, you and your fabulousness is! He’s just the icing off the very nice self-love cake. If you ain’t feeling it and/or it feels more like a chore that isn’t working rather than fun. Don’t do it. You’ve done so much and the energy does NOT go to waste. We build up resistance when we have fear, too much focus on the outcome and the like which just makes everything slow down. Which isn’t bad, just means that there are things to learn, be done and you have to be kind to yourself. Please don’t think I am being patronising or unkind. Honestly I am not. I am on this journey myself and just had an urge to say something. This is also a reminder to me too. To be honest, am just finding myself and wished I had the lightbulb moment ages ago. However, it’s a beautiful unfolding and had I got what I wanted ages ago, it wouldn’t have worked the same way. Am I there yet and have what I want? Yes and no. My SP? Not yet. However, I am getting myself, am happy and enjoying the process more. I can see better and as a result, not pining over him. Which is damn good progress. To me anyway lol. Much love to you and all, you are doing fine 🤗♥️X[/quote]