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[quote=Piper][quote=donna89]hey thanks for the reply i tried to change my beliefs about him being not stubborn and a few other things and will continue to do so  its just hard because i read so many stories on here about how their ex calls them and that has never happened to me hes never had it in his personality to change to do that but i will continue to believe he will  so if it was you would you personally think this can be changed even after everything [/quote] Someone else' situation is not yours or mine, though, so perhaps not reading them would be beneficial. WE don't get to choose when or how, so you have to continue to work on/enforce your beliefs until they impress. If you are anxious or in doubt, then you have not impressed them yet, so you must continue. Maybe don't work on each thing individually, but instead, see your life with him as a whole - meaning the amazing relationship you desire to have with him where he is not stubborn or whatever. You must go to the end and live in that assumption, not be obsessed, desperate or anxious about it. Live as if you two are already together, happily. [/quote]