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[quote=Nena][u]Rubbing out technique:[/u] My player :-) plays with lots of girls!Thus,i cannot do it with all of them!But,there is a specific girl he uses as a doormat and she is really really persistent!she accepts everything from him ( hitting on me,kissing me,touching me in front of her etc).I also saw her nagging to him,she just wants to hang around!He also gives her the minimum attention to keep her around!I have also noticed him using her as a support against me!So I decided to help him get rid of her :-) :-) I use the rubbing out technique  during the P.W meditation!after the 3 deep breaths and before Lanie starts to concetrate to certain parts of the body,i feel i am already in an alpha state and i start to draw the square,the 3 of us etc.But i left it for 2 days,and she started to like his posts again!So i started again!I also imagine them together being miserable and bored with each other,as Lanie suggests! [u]Call him to me:[/u] Lanie refers to this in the M.B.W.D book!But i use it with the help of P.W meditation!The same room we are in,is a bar (he works there)!I pick a moment where i have a high vibration and he is out of sight!I imagine him with his back against me!I call his name and he turns to me (sometimes he is sweet,sometimes angry)!I tell him to come to me and so he does!then i whisper to his ear "come to me and show me your love"!Sometimes he says "yes i am coming",sometimes he says "wait,in a while"!The day before (i knew he was angry because i had rejected him) and he had not even said hello to me!So i called him and he said things like "leave me alone,what do you want from me?are you playing with me?" and i told him "please come to me,i love you!" :-) :-).And finally he came to me for real,and hugged me and kissed me like crasy and told me 10 times "i love you" and 15 times ""you devil" :-) :-) [u]One more thing:[/u] When i started using the P.W technique,i couldn t see him clearly or listen to his voice!When some time passed,i started to see him alive in front of me and listen to his voice!Then,in reallity he became very distant and wouldn t even talk to me!But i insisted!Someday,when i finished my meditation,i listened to him talk to me with his voice like he couldn t stand it any more,and saying things like "ok i will".Since then,this happens almost everytime but i never remember what he said exactly! And he started to talk to me emotionally,being tender , kiss me passionately and saying "you devil"! I think he doesn t want to do all that,but he can t help it :-) :-) :-)              [/quote]