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[quote=Lisa001]Hi all, so here is my success story. My ex and i broke up in September 2018. He suddenly started acting differently, causing fights with me and then finally just left after a huge fight. I was absolutely devastated. We had been together for 6 years and he was my best friend and love of my life. It was so unexpected!!  Soon after he left he started hanging out with a girl from work and i then found out they were actually seeing each other. As you can imagine, it felt like someone had stomped on my heart. Basically he went from a 6 year relationship directly into another relationship. To make matters worse, she is not even attractive. This just broke my confidence down completely.  Since Sept until Jan he would still call me daily and told me that i was still his best friend, but that he had NO romantic feelings for me and that i should move on. I could not believe it, as he had always been so in love with me I found Lanie's site and bought the books.in January. I used the techniques 4 times per day for 2 weeks solid. I didn't see any positive difference in his behaviour to me, in fact he became incredibly Nasty to me and treated me terribly. I then made the decision that i NO longer wanted him. I had been scripting about him and tore up all the notes, let him go in a meditation and decided to stop the technique. I also told him not to bother contacting me again, because i believed i deserved better than him. It was then that ALL my anxiety disappeared  2 weeks later, he suddenly starts messaging me and calling, and saying EVERY single thing i had heard him say during the technique - (I am so in love with you, I don't love her, you are my soulmate, i cannot stop thinking about you, I would do anything for you etc.). He even CRIED on the phone (just like i had imagined) and he never CRIES.  We even met for dinner and he kissed me passionately afterwards. I was shocked. I could not believe it. All this after he told me that he was NOT in love with me, that he could never see me that way again etc. Plus he chased this woman from work to be with her . He is still with her, but will NOT leave me alone and keeps telling me that leaving me was a huge mistake and is indicating that he wants to get back together. The problem is that I am not sure i want him back now..  Lanie's technique is amazing !! It works - but i think you must let go for it to work quickly and efficiently. Best of luck to all of you xx [/quote]