Name

Message

[quote=intentions]Hi Believe It is ok I am 35  so I definitely know how you feel! We dont want to hit 50 with no one. So I know how your parents feel and I have seen many friends of mine wasted 10 years of their lives chasing someone who cheated and hurted them. I can't tell them lanie's techniques because they are very closed minded.  What I can tell you is this. Don't let your parents and or too many people in your life know your pain and longing because their concern and stress for you actually attracts negative energy for you and him.  So last night my ex called me and although he told me that he really likes his one girl etc etc which she is very attractive but I decided I was going to do Lanie's LS on him. I did it today so let's see if we can see any movement but I felt really good doing it.  If you feel that your ex is the one, then dont feel threatened by any girl or anyone. Just put on your sad love ones and play it while you do pw or bwd. Those sappy love songs get me emotionally charged with missing him and thats what you  need. When I  miss him,  I am able to use that emotion of missing and love, yearning and desire and I pretend that its him missing me and feeling those emotions and him telling me all the things I want to hear. Yes cry if you need to, release all that emotions as if they were his and youre feeling it. After wards you will feel really great. During the day when negativity creeps in, just remind yourself he is madly in love with you and dismiss any sad feeling, like just smile to yourself knowing he is thinking of you everytime you feel that missing or sadness. When you get too attached or desperate, use her CTC method and make up your mind that he is waiting for you but youre not accepting him any less than the man you desire him to be. My ex is confessing that I'm the love of his life yesterday, that is unbelievable news to me. Then he tells me, he doesnt feel that way anymore but I dont care what he says, I have convinced myself that he knows I am the love of his life.  Also during our relationship, I always felt that I was not good enough for him. Now I feel that he is chasing me somewhat even though he is holding back and doesn't text or call everyday. I NO LONGER call nor initiate any texts messages now. I let the lingering effects of pw do the work. If I feel like doing bwd/pw then I do it. I only do it when I get excited or lets just say, when I get horny.. I am sorry I dont want to say that, but thats the only time I get motivated now to do the bwd/pw but it works! also do EFT Brad Yates love magnet, It will clear away a lot of the insecurities and worries you have, Do it a lot until you feel peace, then do pw/bwd and really start believing he is madly in love with you because he is!! He really is.  I know this is long but one thing I forgot to mention. So my ex has never had a girl ever hurt him or break his heart. They pretty much made him happy all the time because they were really into him and so was I. I never made him unhappy until we broke up and I was super rude, cold, callous and just a plain jerk to him.  I think because he went through the pain of hurt, anger, sadness, loneliness over me, he actually wanted me more. So therefore use this no contact to let your ex feel the pain of not having you. While you do bwd /pw and let that gnaw at him and make his heart ache for you insanely while you live your life happily, knowing he is sitting there in no contact suffering over you. My ex told me this during our no contact and it was confirmation to know I didn't have to suffer the entire time when I let him go, yet still did pw etc and he was the one missing me and yearning for me.  Believe in you and your belief will form for you what you feel is true. Right now you feel that he doesnt love you so he won't. Start feeling that he wants you and is crazy for you and that's where lanies technqies help. Her methods dont change your reality, it changes your beliefs and once you accept that what you visualize is true, then and only then, you will have it come true. Do not have negativity and fear as those things will make all this work go even slower. Play a game with yourself and pretend he loves you, pretend the visualizaton pw was a new way of video chatting and that he really did say those things. ONce you have convinced yourself, you will be telling your success story too.  [/quote]