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[quote=inwonderland]Remember what you focus on is what you will bring to you. If you keep thinking about this guy bugging you, he will stay in your life - if only tormenting you in your head. Also, Neville said you can mentally call anyone to you and have them tell you what you want to hear and make it so in reality. However you don't want to hear from this guy!!! Here's an extreme scenario - I've managed to heal my relationship with my emotionally abusive ex husband. I focused on what I wanted - peaceful coparenting - and dropped all the fearful stuff. We aren't friends, but I no longer get a sick feeling when I see he's emailed me. We are kind of like strangers who happened to have kids together. I just wanted peace, so that's what I focused on. It took FIVE YEARS but I had a lot to work on inside MYSELF. Remember it begins and ends inside yourself! You want to be left alone? Visualize and feel the sensation of being safe and free from unwanted advances until you no long have to focus on it. You embody it. He then has to drop out of your reality. Personally I'd save PW for guys I want to have hanging around. A much more fun use of your time. Good luck I know that's a terrible feeling!!![/quote]