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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=Forever19][quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=Forever19]What is your technique that you feel works the best with the most results ? My story I was best friends with my love for seven years and we fell in love and dated for a year and a half and we haven't spoken to each other in two years and I'm still madly in love with her and want to be with her I miss my bestfriend and my love. And I also my love and I were in the same group of friends and because of that I distanced myself from my friends because we were all close and they still hangout with her all the time I miss all my friends and my girlfriend .. It's been so long that I try to believe for a couple of weeks and then when I don't see results I get frustrated and give up .. How do I ignore the current reality ? How do I make myself fully believe that it will happen and how do I distract myself ? ... Btw I'm a girl and I've been trying to get her back and she told me two years ago I only love you as my bestfriend I'm not in love with you anymore and I never will be but, for some reason I could never give up I feel like we're meant for eachother I feel like she's my soulmate[/quote] I'm sorry for what you are going through.  I too distance myself from others when I am hurting.  It's probably the worst thing you can do but I feel that I need to heal myself before I can interact.  I hope you have read my Pussy Whip book not because I make a whole $2 on it but because it will help you reach her through meditation.  Even if the person does not choose (it is free will) to come back they will open their hearts to you and it will allow a healing to occur.  You can also manifest a life outside of the relationship with her that will be fulfilling.  Please don't allow yourself to hurt without taking some positive steps to empower yourself.  My thoughts are with you! Big Hugs, Lanie PS:  Remember you cannot change anything by living in the past.  Focusing on it is a total and complete waste of your time and energy.  The future you can influence directly by your thoughts today.  xoxoxoxo    [/quote] Yes I have read that book and I actually bought your other book as well ..I'm trying my hardest not to live in the past I'm not sure how to keep my mind busy as I go throughout the day ... I feel happy with myself I work out 5 times a week, I take care of myself , I dress up everyday .. When I do your technique it's so easy that I feel as though there's more for me to do lol[/quote] I hope it's easy because that's the way life is intended to be.  It is only us that makes it difficult!  LOL  I'm so glad you are taking care of yourself because it helps your self-esteem.  It's hard not to live in the past when you have a hurt so deep so practice paying attention to when your thoughts go to a place you don't want them to go and just gently change your thought to something positive.  For instance:  if you see someone in love and it brings hurt because of the love you lost allow rather than dwell on what you don't have shift your thought to "I know the beauty of that love and I will experience it again".  That will put a smile of expectation on your face and a love in your heart that will attract that very thing to you.  xoxoxoxoxo[/quote]