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[quote=PumpkinPie]Thanks for the invite, Lanie! This is what I emailed to you earlier :) I've been able to attract my ex back after having had no contact with him for three months after our breakup...we started seeing each other again in December...I saw him twice then he ignored me the next three weeks and we have been seeing each other consistently the past few weeks again...however I spent the night at his place last Monday and he hasn't bothered to reach out to me since. Trying to make plans with him is awful because he is so vague and sometimes never gets back to me about them.?And then he places his friends and hobbies before me too. And it's like he doesn't have the balls to commit because he likes the freedom of single life too much, yet he thinks he can get his piece of cherry pie when he wants. I'm royally fed up...he goes from hot to cold all the time. My mood has been stressed lately because of school and it has made me a little tense about him as well so this is probably why he's cold again if I'm looking at it from an LoA point of view. But I was wondering what can I do to make him more consistent with me, communicate better with me, and make me priority over his friends and hobbies? I don't want to take over his life but it would be nice if he made me more time for me willingly. Things are amazing when things are hot, but how do I maintain that? And also he's obviously highly attracted to me sexually but how do I get him to want me more in a relationship sense? I do not want to be his booty call or friends with benefits. Thank you![/quote]