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[quote=PumpkinPie][quote=emmiline][quote=PumpkinPie]Thanks for the invite, Lanie! This is what I emailed to you earlier :) …And also he's obviously highly attracted to me sexually but how do I get him to want me more in a relationship sense? I do not want to be his booty call or friends with benefits. Thank you![/quote]   PumpkinPie, I think this is my problem too, im reluctant to start a 'physical' relationship with my target because i want to be courted and have a serious committed relationship. But it seems his interest is more sexual.. my target blows hot and cold as well.. and has time for his friends but not me. Its creepy to think that i may have 'created this monster' by influencing his subconcious...[/quote] I can relate. My problem is that I have a pattern where I get relaxed, wonderful things happen and I'm super happy, then after awhile I get tense, then he pulls this stuff that makes me upset...and repeat. I'm now at the stage where I'm upset again...my friend told me to text him last night, and so I did, and no response. I figured he would have replied during the night since he tends to do that but nope. Now I'm even more mad, lol. Anyway is really appreciate some advice from Lanie about my situation :)[/quote]