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[quote=Rubybell68][quote=Amazonne]Hey ladies, I realize a lot of us (I'd argue almost all of us) have negative beliefs about men. Early this year I accepted that I would struggle to manifest a lot of the desired experiences with guys as long as I held such negative beliefs, and I began working on them. I'm hoping that starting this thread will motivate all of us (myself included) to alter our realities, and get the treatment we deserve. I'll give some examples: 1) I worked on a belief I'd developed about men not wanting commitment, and I changed it to "men want love and relationships just as much as women do." I searched my brain for examples of guys I knew who always talked about wanting girlfriends, and guys from High School who were STILL with their HS sweethearts, and used that to build up my new belief. Shortly after, I met a guy who was in town for the week- we had an amazing date, amazing sex and [i]he still texted me first[/i] the next day and wanted to spend an entire afternoon with me. 2) I also decided, just for fun, that "men fall even more in love with me after sex". I mean, we're taught from a young age that women get clingy after sex and men lose interest, but is that really how we want things to go? Not me! Anyhoo, I went on another Tinder date with someone who seemed to just want sex, but after the sex on our 2nd date, he got SUPER affectionate. I'm talking strangely affectionate- it was so different to how he was before. He was opening up about personal things, kept telling me what a nice girl I am, and half-jokingly asked me to spend the night. And he's still texting me today, even though I went home for 3 weeks (using BWD on and off- thanks Lanie!) So, although my current targets are still in progress, I know for a fact that altering our beliefs really does alter reality. I really want for more women to stop being victims to the lies we're fed from childhood, and have awesome love lives.  So, if anyone wants to join this challenge, feel free! Some affirmations are: "Men love, worship and revere me for everything I am" (adding the worship and revere includes the respect I want from men) "Men fall in love with me after sex" "Men want love and relationships just as much as women do" Add any you want, as long as they portray men the way you want them to be in your life.  All the best, and let's keep each other motivated :)[/quote] You have a WONDERFUL way of thinking.. This made my day!! Thank you!! [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png[/img]  [/quote]