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[quote=Shawneegirl1980][quote=Jim Chien Beige][quote=Shawneegirl1980][quote=Jim Chien Beige] I read this thread in the morning and like 15 minutes later a thought came to my mind. One time my BF and I spent the weekend at a friend's house out of the city. We had a twin bed. In the morning I realized that my BF wasn't there. He went to sleep on the couch. And I told him: you abandoned me. He said: shut up, don't say that. The day we broke up, I sent him a whatsapp message and afterwards I texted 2 friends and told them: he's going break up with me. And he did. The thing is I thought, feared and talked about him leaving me. Voilà: we create our own destiny, for better or worse. Now it's time to use our power to undo the unwanted things that we created and to change our belief system.[/quote] Oh wow...it sounds all too familiar...is this the person you are wanting to attract back??[/quote] Yes. That happened 2 months ago. We are in contact but haven't talked about our relationship yet. And I'm working on changing my thoughts. I didn't appreciate the good traits that he has, I was only focused on what he didn't give me. Now I'm making a list of every single detail I like about him. I kept saying: he is unable to communicate, he is unable to show his emotions, he has a bad temper. I have to change my perception because if I keep saying: he is unable to communicate, he will be unable to communicate. This attracting your BF back is quite a journey of self discovering.[/quote] Aint that the truth?  You learn more about yourself and your own thoughts and flaws when you begin practicing the loa or having faith.  Everything that you just said..i think many of us are guilty of...which is what attracted the break up in the first place...but no need to sweat or fret...he's still your's .....this is just the time for you to work on you, that's all.[/quote]