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[quote=bambi]I have been on this journey since buying the book back in November. I even emailed Lanie about my situation. I will provide a glimpse of my emails to Lanie (hopefully she is ok with that) so you guys can have the FULL story. If I can create a success with her technique, I swear ANYONE can do it as well.  This is a glimpse of the first email I sent to Lanie the first week of November. =10ptI have been doing the technique since November 3rd. 2 weeks prior to November the guy I love told me to move on and live my life. I practiced 3 times a day and on November 8th I heard from him. He didn't say the things I heard him say, but I did hear him say he would communicate with me more. Well we talked for over an hour like we use to do when we first met. I was certainly pleased with that. [color=#000000]I loved this man with everything in me. We had been through a lot. I honestly felt like he was my soulmate, but I was riddled with fear, insecurity, unworthiness, and depression. This guy told me to move on with my life. I became pregnant by him but lost the baby in December and this caused us to drift further apart and argue. He began to move on with his life. He was on a dating website that I found. And he began taking trips with "female friends" to exotic locations. I was pissed and hurt. [/color] [color=#000000]Before I found out about the trips with the women, Lanie encouraged me:[/color] =10ptkeep using the technique to get him back.  Send him love during the technique and visualize him sending and feeling it back.  Be sure to call out to him before beginning the technique even if it takes 10 times to feel him connecting with you. =10ptGood luck!  Just remember that it works but you should always use it to keep a great relationship going after you get him back.  Manifest great things in your life.  :-)  [color=#000000]But things got really toxic once I found out he was taking more trips with these so called "female friends" and a girlfriend of mine told me he went out on a date with a very beautiful and popular model. He was still on the dating site. I just got discouraged. This man is wealthy! And he has women throwing themselves at him, because of his status. I thought we had really connected. I honestly felt that we were meant to be together as husband and wife.  I was discouraged and expressed to Lanie what was going on. This is what she suggested: [/color] =13.3333pxHonestly he sounds like maybe it's too much time and effort for what he has to offer.  Let him stay online and continue to work on him but don't count on only him.  You move on too.  If he is into you then he will come back.  If not, cut your losses and move forward.  There are many men who could be the perfect mate for you.  Don't waste your "pretty" on a guy who is showing less than you deserve.  xoxoxo [color=#000000]So, that is what I did. We argued and fought all the way until end of February. I had to admit this but I even became suicidal and he found out about it and got really worried. He told me there was no way we were going to be together because I had too many issues I needed to work on. I agreed. I began working on me. But, I did the technique 2 times everyday end of February on him. No contact from end of February to May. In early May, he came back. We talked and got some things out. But, I became insecure again and so he said that we could not be together and we agreed to just let go and move forward with our lives. However, a guy I knew came to me in March and he and I began dating. He was so sweet to me. He was giving me everything I wanted in a man! I would add a technique on him but only did it 1 time a day. I was in alignment with what Lanie said, to move on but I still kept the technique up on the guy I truly loved. Well, fast forward from end of May of letting go of the guy I truly love to today. I have been dating the new guy. Doing the technique on him 1 time a day. Things have gotten serious between us and he begged me for more dates and we have been spending more time with each other. I can tell the technique works on him. In the meantime, I have been also working on MYSELF! Working out, working on my career which has been blossoming. Visualizing more money which has literally doubled in the past 60 days. I have been also meditating more and began listening and affirming affirmations about my own self-worth, my self-esteem, and telling myself that I am enough, that I am beautiful, and that I deserve the best. The new guy is in LOVE. He has told me everything I have told him during the technique. He wants to take the relationship to the next level. Only problem is now: The guy I truly love came back a week ago!!!!! No CONTACT from end of May until the end of July, which he confessed to me that He can't live without me! That he loves me! He doesn't know what happened, but he has been thinking about me non-stop. He is having trouble dating because EVERY date he has been on, he thinks of me, and knows that I am the only woman for him! He said he is actually embarressed to tell me this, but he feels like he is losing his mind!!  He wants to start anew. Leave the past in the past and just date. Take our time loving each other and building a strong foundation. He said he does not want to date any other woman and that he will do whatever he needs to do to prove to me how much he loves me and wants me apart of his world. So, now its a matter of deciding between the 2 guys. The technique works!! Even if they are stubborn, and even with NO CONTACT but it WORKS!! This journey has been going on since November but I have been working on myself, my energy and my happiness. Thank you Lanie! I am so happy. I am going to keep the technique going and work to achieve my ultimate goal - Marriage with my love!  Please just know what you want, and DO NOT GIVE UP![/color]  [/quote]