I would try doing PW over BWD so that you are creating the emotional connection and loving relationship that you want with him instead of just the sexual intimacy. Agnes has some free sessions on attracting your person that will really raise your energy and that will help build your connection with him as well, as he will feel your energy when you connect to him. Also, just because you feel that you "aren't connecting" doesn't necessarily equate to him not receiving your intentions. If you are truly feeling and believing in what you are doing, regardless of the technique, he is receiving it. 

You've only been communicating via online dating site? How long have you been communicating with him? And you haven't met him in person yet, correct?

Lapine wrote:

Hi all, I‘ve been doing PW and a bit of BWD to attract my estranged husband back into my life for two weeks now. So far, I‘ve got no clear results, only POSSIBLE ones. For example, my hubby butt dialed me two days ago and replied in a positive way to a message if we could meet up at some point in the future (after NC). However, he has butt dialled me before the breakup on some occasions and he always stated that he wants to stay in contact with me beyond formal responsibilities (like talking about a divorce or collecting his stuff from our formerly shared apartment). So I can‘t say PW is behind his responses with any certainty.

So I started reading up on remote influencing and remote viewing in general. I came across Jose Silvas‘s method and found it helpful. Much of what Lanie does in her PW/ BWD meditations is close to what is called the Silva method. Basically, you train your brain to enter the alpha state quickly and then convey your message to the person you want to contact / influence. While Lanie focuses on your POI talking to you about the things you want to hear from them in real life, Silva has YOU talk to the person and convey your wishes to them. They do not talk to you at all. I‘ve tried both methods.

Then I‘m a great fan of Agnes Vivarelli‘s whispering technique. According to her method, you repeatedly whisper what you want your POI to say / do into his ear during visualization.
Agnes does not explicitly state that you have to do this using your first person point of view. You might also do it seeing yourself doing it as if in a movie. This contradicts Lanie‘s tenet that you have to see the scene through your own eyes - because otherwise you‘re just daydreaming.

So what is your opinion on mixing techniques? Does it block results for you or does a „custom made“ approach seem to do the trick better?

I try to keep my „work“ coherent by always entering the alpha state first and doing my visualizations from a stri

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