I figured I’d give you all an update since I often see posts like these, etc. but more often than not I never know the outcome. Therefore, I figured I’d share with you all.

Days, then weeks, then months passed, and I hadn’t seen my POI again. From what I was gathering on social media, he and his girlfriend have only gotten more serious. Because I didn’t want to be attached to the outcome yet I had no luck at all when it came to dating around, I just figured it was best to not meditate as much. I pretty much stopped but when I did it I just felt like my heart just wasn’t in it as much. Me not seeing my POI at all in two months really did me in as well as his own relationship that seemed to be getting stronger.

That said, I just let it go completely. Turns out he’s moving out of state anyway and taking the girlfriend with him. Not that I wanted to interfere with their relationship, but I was also having the hope that maybe this was going to be short lived between him and her as my tarot cards kept saying they would end by summer and a few psychics said the same thing. In the end I just moved on. I’m actually not really sad and I wasn’t upset because I had been detached from the outcome, which is something I wanted. If anything I will say that I do feel some kind of way about the fact that the key thing I’ve always heard when it comes to the law of attraction and a specific person and applying it. I’ve always heard that if you’re okay with not having that person and open to having someone better, the universe would very likely bring it to you. On one hand I’m proud of myself because this is the most I’ve ever been detached from an outcome, considering that I really wanted to be with this guy and have the opportunity to explore my connection with him (we had one that I really felt every time I was around him, no lines were ever crossed). Yet on the other hand I’m scratching my head over the law of attraction when it comes to this. I did ev

I have a bit of an update. Lanie, you’re very right about never questioning how the law of attraction will work! While it is frustrating that my POI has a girlfriend now (and I think she just moved in with him despite them only being together for like a couple of months to my understanding), I still wanna see this through yet not interfere with their relationship. I’m continuing with the meditations, EFT Tapping, and the law of attraction as well as attempting to date around (no luck yet but I’m still trying). I’ve been doing the aforementioned and visualizing us together and embodying the feeling of being in a relationship with him. I don’t focus on the how’s and the when’s because the universe will sort that all out. Like magic, people, places, and things have been coming together that has anything to do with him and us crossing eachother’s paths (also note that I transferred to a studio location in a different city over an hour away, so me seeing him more regularly isn’t as likely as it once was).

Fast forward to last Monday when my boss sent out a memo that my POI was going to be a guest visitor at the studio location I work at on Thursday. I audibly gasped because 1. Our studio location is over an hour away from the sister studio my POI works at and we like NEVER have guest people doing anything like that. 2. I know for a fact I manifested this because of all the other people we have at other studio locations to do a class, I would’ve thought someone else would have done that by now who has been with our company for much longer and not him.

But yeah, there’s no going around it. I definitely manifested my POI coming to my studio location this past Thursday. I got to have an actual conversation with him and my friend who happened to come with him before they left. What I observed is that we’re forming a genuine connection because he’s usually pretty indifferent, sometimes aloof or evasive when around other people. However, when I was

Lanie Stevens wrote:

This reminds me of a story that has to do with a friend of mine.  She met someone from out of town but he was married.  She wasn't going to interfere with their relationship but she was crazy about him (never had sex or intimacy) and she visualized herself with him.  He called her one day (months had gone by) and said his wife left him (never question how LOA is going to work) and he and my friend got married a couple of years later.  You never know what the future will bring.  I would use the technique (it worked) and then let the universe bring him to you if it's in your best interest.  :-)

Thank you Lanie for your encouragement! I truly appreciate it. I don’t get the impression that they’ve been together long at all, because he was in fact single when I met him in November. I just feel like the way things had been aligning that it wasn’t an accident. The fact that he isn’t even my usual type at all yet I’m so drawn to him is very telling. I’m a big believer in Angel numbers/repeating numbers and I met him on 11/11 (November 11th of last year) and I’m still seeing repeating numbers a lot right now despite him dating this girl.

I’m so happy to hear about your friend! I’ve been doing the Connect to your POI While You Sleep meditation, ETF Tapping using my own script, and Believing You Can Manifest Love meditations. Lanie, are there any meditations in particular you recommend? I’m willing to try anything else out. Thank you again!! <3

StrawberryGoddess wrote:

You should send Lanie an email about your concern and she should be able to help you on the above matter you're inquiring about.

Thank you! She got back to me and helped me out. Will try again.

I purchased the Connect to POI During Sleep meditation, but all it does is loop and play on repeat the first few minutes of the countdown only. Does anyone else have this one and have the same issue? It is no use if I paid for this and it’s not even a full meditation.