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General Discussion "For Women Only" » What exactly are you doubting. » 3/08/2017 2:23 am

lalalovely
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I know LOA works, I've been consciously applying it since >1.5 year now. I am manifesting things like abundance, physical changes, contact with ex-friends/lovers/family and guys seem to go crazy over me all of a sudden. 

However, my biggest fear is that I CAN manifest everything BUT my true love. I always felt we had a special connection. However we've been apart for approx. 1.5 years now, he got a new girl really soon.. so that are two huge blocks of doubt for me. However I keep receiving signs, small and big.. I run into his family/friends lately.. I even manifested contact with him.. but it hasnt blossemed as I have been visualizing all this time. One time he seems so happy to talk to me, keeps asking me questions and the other time he just seems to not be bothered by me. But they all end the same.. with an "ignore modus" that keeps going untill he decides to contact me again. These moments really do mess up my own feelings (vibes sky high to low when the contacts stops again). I am also afraid that these moments of contact mess up my manifesting. 

Success Stories » SIX ex-'lovers/admirers' showed up » 1/24/2017 3:16 am

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Golden thank you for your response really appreciate it. I guess I am being impatient with this one haha. I didn't expect a declaration of love from him but I also didn't expect that he would just leave the conversation after a week of nice chatting. 

It's just so difficult because I was detached from him, then he reached out, first I was still detached but the better the conversation got the more attached I became again because I know my heart still wants it so bad. Did anyone else had some experience/problems with this? 

Success Stories » SIX ex-'lovers/admirers' showed up » 1/22/2017 3:44 am

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Sorry for the long post, but if you still don't believe.. Well.. LOA is real. I am manifesting things like crazy.. Not only in the area of love but also with my job, travels, friends and finances. I manifest things like crazy now! 

So I haven't been around lately, I noticed my vibes were getting down from this forum so I needed a break to focus more on my manifestations. And with succes.. In the last THREE weeks I have SIX "exes" (lovers/guys I dated/guys who had a crush on me years ago) reached out to me.. This just can't be a coincidence. They reach out through all different ways. It's so funny to experience. For all the people who still had doubts: THIS.REALLY.WORKS.!! Even ex-crushes I totally forgot about seem to think about me right now. 

The most important of all... My love (my POI) also reached out AFTER 1.5 years apart !! We did have some contact from time to time in the meantime, but I mostly initiated or it was around one of our birthdays. However, conversations were always shortlasting and it was mostly me who did the talking. This time the tables were turned. He reached out 2 weeks after NYE and wished me a happy new year (like wth.. I know right?). I instantly knew there was some alcohol involved so I expected the conversation to end really soon (but I was still positive: I was on his mind and now his barriers are off to reach out to me). Well, the conversation didn't end.. He kept talking, asking questions, making jokes. It felt so natural. I didn't need him to come back or to contact me (although I knew I love him unconditionally and visualized us being together regularly) but it felt soooo good. (For people who don't know my story, we had a relationship for >6 years, my insecurities/depression broke it off, and we both got into another relationship very soon. Although I love my new guy too, it's different with what I had with my POI. The connection between us is from another world, it's ridiculous...still... ) Things aren't going really well bet

Questions & Answers » Manifesting good grades. Need help » 12/07/2016 4:10 am

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shinebright3012 wrote:

Okay thanks and do you know what scripting is? The guided meditations are the mp3s right?

So far have you been able to manifest anything that you wanted? Btw, I'm quoting this instead of your recent reply cuz for some reason, it wouldn't let me quote the other one cuz it had a link and this site said I needed to post 5 times before I could quote your other quote.

Yes I've done scripting for a while but I get lazy doing it. Scripting is rewriting your day (like a diary) as if you already have your desire at the moment. Take some time to get into this stuff. There is a lot of good information to find on the internet about the law of attraction  

The guided meditations are the mp3 files. There are also some on google, but some have subliminal messages and I personally am not really fond of that. 

I have manifested a lot of things. I havent manifested my ex back (yet) but I know from my side that there are still some feelings of hurt/resistance I need to deal with. However, I manifested contact with him many times. I even manifested him saying that he dreamt about me and complementing me. 

Some examples from what I did manifest:
- Contact with my best friend from high school (we separated in a fight years ago, but I manifested her to reach out to me and meet up)
- A trip to Ibiza, Spain
- Not one, but two jobs
- meeting up family members of my love 
- Two free professional books about neuropsychology (My desire was to gain more knowledge in this topics and within a few days my supervisor was cleaning his office and gave me the first book, and a friend of him gave me a second one when he passed by another day)
- A kettebel (in the exact weight -12kg- I set my intentions in). I wanted this for our gym attic, but didnt want to travel to the sports store (an hour from my house) to get one, so I just set the intention that it would come to me. So a few weeks after there was a competitions and one of the prices was a kettelbel of 12kg,

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Dating someone else whilst getting ex back? » 12/07/2016 2:11 am

lalalovely
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Evey2222 wrote:

You are right, I mean, I read PW again the other night. And its right what Lanie says though, about getting on with your life in the mean time. I am definitely not doing this to get my love back, It's just kinda happened! I have been on a few dates, we really click and I enjoy his company. I am just seeing what happens. He seems sweet and I wouldn't want to hurt him but surely I should put my happiness first? (I know that probably sounds really selfish but I mean as in I shouldn't be waiting around in the hope of getting my love back) - I would rather set the intentions that one day whether it be next week, next year, etc. That we will be together again and he will be the man I want and deserve - whilst doing so I do the things that make me happy? 

I have learnt so much from living by the law of attraction, that the most important person is me, and if i'm not happy then I need to change that. I deserve to be treated right and with respect and wont tolerate anything less anymore. 

I am not sure what is going on with this, I mean it could just be a fling, it could be the process, or he could be better! I am just going with the flow and seeing what happens! Thank you all for your input though, you helped me a lot! I will keep updating haha xxx

Yes ! THIS. This is exactly what loa is about. Putting your happiness first while manifesting your desires. I do the same. There are no rules in loa. You are the universe. Its all about you. If your intentions are genuine you wont hurt the other. The universe has another plan for him/her.

Questions & Answers » Manifesting good grades. Need help » 12/05/2016 2:52 am

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shinebright3012 wrote:

lalalovely wrote:

You can't force PW with time. However, you should feel/visualize like you already have it. Like you already pass all your courses. Imagine the grade you would like to recieve, how it would show up on your list, who would tell you, how you would react.. Imagine telling other people (friends/family). How they would react. It is definitely possible. But you have to believe it yourself too. If you still fear you are going to fail the class, you should let go of that fear (that could cause resistance). 

What I also did with one of my courses was while studying I confirmed to myself "wow I got this, I really really got this. This is so easy. " (even though it wasn't). Normally I would say to myself "I dont understand, I am going to fail.. this is hopeless". Obviously that would get my vibes down and make me more stressed. 

Keep your vibes up, believe in yourself, let go of the fear and keep focusing on the desired end result 

Is there anything  you do to help you visualize well? I heard someone told me they would listen to positive music to make them feel good I guess while they visualize.

How do you let go of resistance?
 

I sometimes use the guided meditations but normally I just relax and visualize. Do what works for you, what brings you in the positive vibe of manifesting. 

There is a lot of information of (letting go of) resistance on this forum. I also like the 'illuminatingjoy' account on youtube who explains everything very well. You could also take a look there: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mbcn9HVdIRI

Questions & Answers » Manifesting good grades. Need help » 12/04/2016 4:10 am

lalalovely
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You can't force PW with time. However, you should feel/visualize like you already have it. Like you already pass all your courses. Imagine the grade you would like to recieve, how it would show up on your list, who would tell you, how you would react.. Imagine telling other people (friends/family). How they would react. It is definitely possible. But you have to believe it yourself too. If you still fear you are going to fail the class, you should let go of that fear (that could cause resistance). 

What I also did with one of my courses was while studying I confirmed to myself "wow I got this, I really really got this. This is so easy. " (even though it wasn't). Normally I would say to myself "I dont understand, I am going to fail.. this is hopeless". Obviously that would get my vibes down and make me more stressed. 

Keep your vibes up, believe in yourself, let go of the fear and keep focusing on the desired end result 

Success Stories » Strange Success with Gratitude & PW » 12/04/2016 4:04 am

lalalovely
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Wow that's so great that you have been manifesting this positive kind of relationship with him keep it up ! 

Success Stories » It works » 11/29/2016 7:32 am

lalalovely
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So happy for you
 

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