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Questions & Answers » Emergency advice Please Help!!! » 5/09/2017 1:55 pm

MLK
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Hi! So I read your story and I honestly feel you should take a step back from him a little. I wouldn't text or call, I would wait for him to reach out. It doesn't mean you aren't going to be with him.....but Right now I think you are putting too much energy on the fact that you are in love with him.
Don't get me wrong, it's okay to be in love with him 😊 But you have to put yourself first. If he's not showing you respect (missing your bday. Etc.) it could be because he knows you will forgive him.

Raise your expectations, and he will have to act differently to meet those expectations. So focusing on yourself and being happy without him will cause him to make more of an effort. It's hard to explain, but it works!
I wish you luck😊😊😊

Success Stories » I got him back! » 5/09/2017 6:37 am

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Okayy! 😊 I'll continue it haha

Success Stories » I got him back! » 5/08/2017 7:09 am

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Of course! I'm approaching it very different this time. Just positively. I think it's due to the fact all these techniques made me more confident with myself and I know what I deserve 😊 Thanks Lanie

Success Stories » I got him back! » 5/07/2017 4:31 pm

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Thank you!!😊❀️

Success Stories » I got him back! » 5/07/2017 6:39 am

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I'm on the mobile version too and for some reason it's not letting me find them. But basically a couple weeks ago he told me he didn't want anything, even though we were hanging out as a couple and doing everything like we used to. So I tried to stop talking to him (which of course was hard and only lasted a week before one of us would text each other).

He said some of the things I've thought in my meditations like how he's the closest with me and I'm sure he will say the love part soon😊
But also, not only did I get him back now things that I think of always happen! Like I think I'm gonna have a great night tonight and it happens! I think someone's gonna pay for my dinner and it happens! And it happens in ways you would never think of! God and the universe make it that wayI also see angel numbers all the time like 4444, 888, 1111. And specific cars I want to see driving by. So I know I was going to get him back and more great things are always happening

I've read things about how getting an ex back isn't all fun and games and eventually, since you've broken up before, it will happen again. I don't believe that! Change the way YOU think and your relationship will change for the better. the person will be, to you, what you want them to be. This even goes for fights with friends. If you think "it's my fault we are fighting" then that's what you will get, guilt. So just think "it's just a fight, we will get past it. "

The key is to just believe. and I know it's hard when crappy situations come along but just know they don't last forever! So if you are positive during them, more positivity will come so fast. I started these techniques in November and I was jobless, my grandfather who I was so close with passed away, and my ex was being distant. Because I stayed positive I now am happier than ever with a job in a top pharma company and now my boyfriend is with me! And I have even helped my family stay positive through the loss of my grandfather (they even tell me h

Success Stories » I got him back! » 5/06/2017 5:23 pm

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After many ups and downs the past month I finally can say I am dating my love again! Last night he took me out to a movie and dinner. After, he was telling me how he's going to leave (he normally says over my apartment when he visits). I felt something was wrong so as he was getting ready to go I used the technique of living in the end and remained positive. As he was walking out I just told him every single thing on my mind. I told him I cannot keep talking to him and continuing what we are doing. I said that I needed someone to treat me well and that he needs to if he wants to be with me. I guess the thought of him not having me made something click with him!

I looked up at him and he was teary eyed. He told me I am such a huge part of him and he is the closest with me over everyone else. If he loses me he would be very upset and the thought of me with someone else makes him upset as well. We sat and talked about things for an hour or so about how he felt insecure and he wants to change. He wants to be with me. He ended up staying over and just being 10x more attentive To my feelings. Today I asked him what we were doing he told me that we are dating again. 😊 So thankful to everyone on here and Lanie! I knew it was possible and now I have everything I have ever wanted.

Manifesting Your Ex Back » ??? » 4/13/2017 11:52 am

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Guys I just want to post this so people don't lose hope. He ended up calling me and telling me how the things he said came from a place of being scared. He obviously does love me, but all the emotions because intense at once and he got scared. He didn't know what to do. So I just wanna say the spells and meditations work. But also, you just have to be accepting of what is currently in your life now. And be happy because a single guy can't be the source of happiness 😊😊

Manifesting Your Ex Back » ??? » 4/10/2017 11:22 am

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Thanks for the response. The thing is I didn't ask for a relationship. I was just confused and I told him that. We had sex a couple weeks ago and Saturday his parents were treating me like a girlfriend again telling me they are glad I'm back in their lives and making me dinner. I think his response was not warranted considering we have a long history.

I think he will come around and probably his intense feelings are making him upset, but right now I am completely happy with or without him 😊 Do you think that the intense feelings are scaring him? Is this a normal situation?

Manifesting Your Ex Back » ??? » 4/09/2017 3:40 pm

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I know I just can't be just friends with him

Manifesting Your Ex Back » ??? » 4/09/2017 9:28 am

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Have been doing the techniques. we were intimate and he facetimes and texts me all week usually. Just finished the love spell and He invited me to his parents house and they made me dinner after we spent the day together and we had a really nice time. After i left I told him I'm confused (he didn't really show affection or kiss me that day). He responded with how he doesn't want a relationship and that he doesn't like to sleep over with me because I tempt him too much? Thinking of going no contact now? What do you think about this?

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