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General Discussion "For Women Only" » 3rd party manifested after 6 months of NC » 12/08/2017 11:45 pm

Hi,

I've been in NC for 6 months. And a few days ago my fear materialized. I was actually ready to reach out to him, but I looked up a girl he became friends with 2 months ago and saw picture of them at a christmas lunch together. Right after that I deactivated my fb and delete my snapchat. But yesterday I redownloaded snapchat and logged in... To see what I feared. He rarely upload stories. But he posted a picture with her with the caption "Bae".

I am in the process of trying to get myself back and I also feel like I deserve to be treated much better. However.. I still want him. And I know he is the one. We're in diff continent and didnt spend a lot of time physically together but we spent an entire 6-7 months talking before that.

However... I feel weak. Throught this 6 months of NC i have been feeling good more than bad.. Yet the fear materialize before anything good. I would appreciate any guidance and success stories despite the 3rd party and distance and NC...

Ps. I think she's gay. But what is going in with them shouldnt matter.... But to me it still does. And i'm working on changing that.

Thank you...

Manifesting Your Ex Back » It's working! » 10/09/2017 8:26 am

Viv wrote:

Hey everyone!

I can't believe it has already been 2 months since I last updated my thread.  My man and I are still dating.  We have seen each other every free weekend that we have had.  Last weekend I was going to take a 1/2 day off work to go visit him.  Then he asked me to take the whole day off instead so I could come up sooner since he wanted to see me so bad.  I ended up spending 3 nights with him.  It was so fun and amazing!  We have such a great time together.  I continue to do PW and BWD as well as Agnes Vivarelli's self love videos.  

He has not yet said the things that I have visualized him saying, but he shows how much he cares in other ways.  He texts me everyday and I was able to manifest him calling me and we talk every couple of days.  Last Wednesday, we talked for a total of 3.5 hours like we did when we were first dating.  I am so grateful to the Universe, Lanie and Agnes!  I'm well on my way to manifesting the relationship of my dreams.  I love reading success stories so I just wanted to give a little update on my success story in progress!

Thank you so mych for this. I wanted to reach out to him last week when my friends snd i had plan to go to a place with one of his fav food but she changed her mind about the place so i didn't get the picture of the food i wanted to use as a conversation opener. It's been 4 months NC but... I will continue to work hard on feeling better. I had a slump over the weekend.

But this just helped me again. Thank you so much. I live 17 hours away from him. By plane. Haha...

General Discussion "For Women Only" » He messaged first!! » 10/04/2017 8:58 am

I'm thinking of reaching out tomorrow. It's been 4 months...

Success Stories » IT ACTUALLY WORKS!! - PLEASE READ » 10/01/2017 4:52 am

jenny3175 wrote:

Hey everyone! So I wanted to share my success story on here because I know how much it helped me when I was having my moments of self doubt. I want to start off by saying that I did not use only Lanie's technique. I used a combination of a few which I know for a fact, all contributed to my manifestation. I will explain it all here. I am extremely sorry for the long post, but I want to say everything step by step how I manifested.

I met a guy about 3 months ago and I instantly knew he was special and different from any other guy I had met or dated before. He lives in another country, however (which is proof it doesn't matter AT ALL how far away your person is). We continued talking, and as you all may know, we manifest things, experiences, and the people in our lives (including the negativity we think about them). Because of some trust issues I had in the past, I started to doubt this guy and OF COURSE he felt my negativity (without me even having to say anything) and he pulled away. We used to talk every day and suddenly that stopped. One day he said he felt overwhelmed by everything between us and he stopped calling and texting as much. When we would talk, it was bland and he even accused me of some things. I knew for a fact I had manifested this into my life, and quite frankly, I was devastated. Instantly, I turned to the LOA to change my situation and circumstances, as I have used the LOA plenty of times before with success. 

I found out about Lanie's PW technique in March and used it for my ex (not the guy I mentioned above). However, I was not consistent with it and while I was doing it, I did not feel utmost love for him. And as soon as I would finish the meditation and go about my day, I found myself doubting his love for me and once again, those trust issues crept into me. So, I knew I had to not only use PW but also change the way I was using it and how I was reacting and acting outside of the meditation. Re

General Discussion "For Women Only" » What if i'm unintentionally manifesting him away? » 9/28/2017 8:59 am

Piper wrote:

So, if that's what you think/believe, then you need to be more aware of how you are feeling and what you are thinking. The universe won't get it wrong because it's bringing you what you are feeling/believing. Our work is to change our mindset.

There's always an ongoing battle. Do I believe we'll be okay? Yeah I do. But current reality of radio silence and everything always makes me feel kinda low... Which is the vibration i tend to send off until I feel better.

I will work towards changing the mindset. I used to be someone who believes in worst case scenario (and of course they alll came true. I am not going down that route again with this person). I am going to clear that doubt... And when I can do that we'll talk.

I can do this. I did it before. I did it before we met and he chose me. I can do it again...

Thank you for replying. .... I would appreciate any inputs on how to trust myself more haha...

General Discussion "For Women Only" » What if i'm unintentionally manifesting him away? » 9/27/2017 10:40 am

I've read some posts and articles.. And I'm wondering if I am manifesting him further out of my life than back into my life? Is it possible?

I'm feeling ok more or less 60-70% of the day. Some days I feel 90%... But every day i would get negative thoughts.

What if he's seeing someone?
What if i'm too late?
What if it's been too long since we last talked? We were talking for 10 months before i went into NC and it's 4 months now.... I know time shouldn't matter but it does seems significant. (I kept going because even though we have not talked, he has been viewing all my stories. But today i have blocked him from viewing the stories because i don't want to be checking for his name so often...)

All sorts of what ifs. And it's the worst right before sleep and when I wake up.

I was falling asleep  half an hour ago when suddenly all negative thoughts came in. I wanted to post this earlier this morning but I put it off.

Can the universe get it wrong because of how i feel?

I'm sorry if my post sounds down... I have been having a rough week.... I thought he'd cave by now...

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Am i manifesting him out of my life instead? » 9/25/2017 5:37 pm

I've read some posts and articles.. And I'm wondering if I am manifesting him further out of my life than back into my life? Is it possible?

I'm feeling ok more or less 60-70% of the day. Some days I feel 90%... But every day i would get negative thoughts.

What if he's seeing someone?
What if i'm too late?
What if it's been too long since we last talked? We were talking for 10 months before i went into NC and it's 4 months now.... I know time shouldn't matter but it does seems significant. (I kept going because even though we have not talked, he has been viewing all my stories. But today i have blocked him from viewing the stories because i don't want to be checking for his name so often...)

All sorts of what ifs. And it's the worst right before sleep and when I wake up.

I was falling asleep  half an hour ago when suddenly all negative thoughts came in. I wanted to post this earlier this morning but I put it off.

Can the universe get it wrong because of how i feel?

Success Stories » Finally✨ » 9/14/2017 7:35 pm

Golden wrote:

Hi ladies (and guys), I've been away for a while, as I felt like I really needed a break to take care of myself ! I also haven't been doing the technique as a nightly thing (just when it feels good) but finally, after a year and some months , we talked ! 😄 I don't want this to get too long, and I'm sure there aren't many people aware of my backstory but basically I've been  through ups and downs...I've quit and restarted a couple times 😬..and it's been a journey! And also.. I may have broken the rules and reached out first..(but in my case I pretty much had to..) since closure was the goal. What happens next is well...up to God (or universe) at this point. Anyway, if there's any questions go for it ! Nothing too deep has happened yet, no grand declarations of love,  but I just wanted to share that finally I've gotten some success 💛! And now that the person is actually in communication, I guess I could use the technique and actually see how they respond instead of wondering.

Hello

I'm contemplating reaching out too, but i haven't reach the point where i'm ok with all responses yet (altho i think he will reply).

How long were you in absolute no contact?

Things will be better for you! If you reached out because you wanted closure it sounds like you've let go. I don't jnow when that will happen to me yet haha...

Thank you for the post ...

Manifesting Your Ex Back » Does it take time to manifest? » 9/05/2017 5:26 pm

Olive wrote:

Hey lovely people,

I am manifesting my ex back, who didn't wanted to commit. We stayed in touch since we broke up, but it wasn't really that much. I was desperate and missed him the whole time. Until I discovered Loa, I feel better about the whole situation before. I don't cry anymore, I don't feel anxious anymore when I think about him. So I started using it and I let go and focused on feeling good again in every moment, even when I was just watching tv. I can smile again without faking it, he then started to message me more often and I stopped messaging him. I only texted when he did. He started more and I manifested a meeting, it was nice but it was on friendly terms. After that he texted a few more times and we talked about random stuff. So, today I asked him if he wants to meet because he suggested it the last time and I couldn't. He said we will talk later about it and that he has to do something but he didn't text anymore. He send me a funny picture, but didn't talked about that we wanted to meet. So my old self would be angry now but my new self doesn't care anymore haha. Really like okay, I am calm and I still believe that we going to have a relationship. I do my visualizations and a lot of the whispering technique. However, it seems like I am a little bit stucked? Like I was able to manifest more contact and one meet up, is the end result just coming in parts? I read so many success storys where the ex just came back, any tips or advice?

Be happy and grateful and hey you've got proof that you can do it... I've been trying for 3 months and i haven't gotten any contact yet.

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