pixelpie wrote:

Cheriesymone wrote:

Hello Love Bunnies,
I have been absent for a while. Thank you all for continuing the challenge in my absence.

I have a situation, I would love some input. 
There is a guy I work with. Out of now Where i started liking him. One morning I turned over in bed, and I started thinking about him, I said to myself no " I cant think of him that way, but it felt so good, so I said ok, let me think about him just this one time. And slowly I think about him everyday. Whats weird though is that I once wrote on here about him. I had an event, and I invited him. (this is before I started desiring him) I was finalizing the event with the account and needed to get a head count of how many people would be attending so I msg him and others and asked "are you coming? are you bringing anyone, he replied " yes, I am bringing a girl i'm dating, is that cool?" his answer affected, I thought why, he asked that? does he think I like him? It bothered me so much, I asked for answers on here. At the event, I met the girl, I was very nice to her, I didn't feel anyway seeing them together, she however shared with my friends she said " M is always talking about Cherie, Cherie this, Cherie that, and she said who the fuck is this Cherie, but now that she met me she likes me" She's was a very jealous girl, she fought with him all night,she told me and my friends her problems with him, that he cheated on her, which didn't make me feel comfortable, I didn't like her talking about him that way. I thought she was insecure and it made me realize how valuable Lanie's technique is, in allowing us to be calm & centered in dealing with men. BTW he says "girl he's dating, I later found out, they have been on and off for over 5 years. 

Anyway Now I think about him all the time, I don't find it easy to do the technique on him, because I dont want him to feel uncomfortable. I started having dreams about him, so clear, the other day in my dream, we kissed, i could literally taste his saliva, it was so real. One day I was laying down, I dosed off, and there he appeared, on top of me having sex, i could literally reach out and touch him, its happening and my mouth feel open, like ahhhh WTF, I'm watching him on top of me, having sex, then i see him ( i guess he nutted) he stopped stroking and then lay his head on my shoulder, I'm watching the whole thing like WTF.

I'm looking back now, its been four months since I met him, when I first met him, I thought he's cute, I l always want to work with him, anytime he ask for my help I willingly give it, I would say, M is so great to work with, I complimented him a lot on his work ethics. My friends see pictures of us and say they see chemistry, because in the photos our heads are leaning in towards each other. He post on FB when he's out with me but nothing with the girl he's "dating" (weird)

Now I think about him constantly, I desire him so much and I don't understand, why/how. My friends say he's probably doing it to me, Lanie's Technique without even knowing. 

Would love insights. 
THANK YOU

 

Wow so my question now is what are you going to do?☺ Even better what do you wanna do. Also everyone uses the technique it's always been subconscious. The only difference with people that know loa we can direct that power the way we want. While people who don't know that have are own auto so they don't know they are doing it. Think the matrix or inception in but in real life☺

Thanks Pixlepie.. I am continuing a professional work relationship..BUT I WANT HIM..BADLY HEHE

Thanks Mel

Lanie,
Thank you.
Thursday he sent  the most amazing msg he said "I have your back always and I know you have mine" with a wink at the end.
He's so sweet.