Hey, first I want to say that as a group, you guys are a very supportive group of women ( & men). I respect your opinions and the advice you give as a whole, so I’m going to ask for a little help. I don’t have anyone I can talk to about this issue so I please bear with me. I want to say to you all that this process works, and the thing that is the most important thing to do is let go. I used it on a female co-worker of mine and it worked within days. The change was so outrageous, my co-workers were shocked. I was even stumped, until I remembered I visualized her saying that I was a good person who deserved kindness and respect. And guess what, that’s exactly what I got from a woman who treated me like something she rubbed off her shoe for 4 years. It was such a shift. I’m going to post the details in the success area later. But, what I learned is that it’s all in the letting go of expectation. I let the universe work it’s magic and it did.
So, I’ve been PW a guy who I’ve been getting mixed signals from for about 5 years. I know he’s interested, but he never makes a move. We get close to going out and he usually either bails at the last minute or doesn’t firm up the plans.  He gets upset when I talk to other guys and when I told him I made a date with someone else for a movie we were suppose to see together, because he never got back to me. I could tell he was upset. He gets upset if I talk to other guys. Like I said, he’s sends out mixed signals.  
 So , following Lanie’s advice, I visualized him saying that he’s ready to have a relationship. I got a few signs that it was working but, I remembered that in order to truly let go , you have to stop looking for signs that this is working. I used Lanie’s advice and PW him, and then let go and went about my life. I signed on for 3d sculpting classes, started working on my “novel”, upgraded my wardrobe, all the things you are suppose to do. I even stopped texting him, unless he texts me first.
I saw him this morning, (he works at the market that comes to my job in the summer) and he tells me that, in 5 weeks, when the market is over he’s moving on. He’s never coming back to the market, he’s going to visit family in the south, then he’s off to Texas to visit his best friend and he might go to LA. He says he just wanted to tell me, and he wants me to keep in touch via some google thing and Instagram. I felt blindsided. Now, this is a guy who disappears over the winter every year, except last winter we texted the whole winter last year and he invited me to have Thanksgiving with his family, which his friend told me he never does. I couldn't go because my I didn't want to leave my sister alone (our Mom had just passed away). Then he and I were suppose to go on a date the first weekend of the year and he got drunk and bailed on me the morning of the date. I let him know that I didn't appreciate it, and I stopped contacting him. So that's our history.

Anyway, I asked him to come to see me  (at my desk) and he came in less than 5 minutes, and we talked. I told him I like him, but I don't know what he wants from me and I asked him what does he want. Why is he telling me this if he’s leaving anyway. He said he wants to be friends, and that maybe he will come back, he doesn’t know. I told him that he’s going to have to be a better friend because I give 100% and I get back 3% from him. And he was shocked. I let him know that he needs to be a better friend. He said he will check his schedule and let me know when we can go out before he leaves.
I felt dazed, I went and read about moving on just to remind myself that it was the thing to do, and I know I’m feeling a little sad,  and although I know that once I have a little breathing time, I’m going to release him and cut the cord and get back to my life. I just need to know if I did the right thing and is there anything else I should be doing. Any advice?