Hello Beautiful People,
I found this info from Louise Hay's website and it really helped me so I want to share it with you all. It is centred around the power of affirmations and how important it is to love yourself first and foremost so you can then receive love and all that you desire. Love is the highest frequency and the quickest way to manifest what we want.
There’s a big difference between the need for love, and being needy for love.
When you’re needy for love, it means that you’re missing love and approval from the most important person you know — yourself. You may become involved in relationships that are codependent and ineffectual for both partners. You can never create love in your life by talking or thinking about being lonely. Feeling lonely and needy just pushes people away. Nor can you heal a relationship in your life by talking or thinking about how awful it is. This only places attention on what’s wrong.
You want to turn your thoughts away from the problem and create new thoughts that will produce a solution.
Arguing for your limitations is just resistance, and resistance is simply a delay tactic. It’s another way of saying, “I’m not good enough to have what I’m asking for.”
Remember, when you think joyous thoughts, you’ll be a happy person, everyone will want to be with you, and all of your current relationships will improve. Say these positive affirmations to yourself daily to cultivate more love in your life with yourself. Watch as the love you have for yourself grows, attracting more and more love to you.

I CHOOSE TO SEE CLEARLY WITH EYES OF LOVE. I LOVE WHAT I SEE.

LOVE HAPPENS! I RELEASE THE DESPERATE NEED FOR LOVE, AND INSTEAD, ALLOW IT TO FIND ME IN THE PERFECT TIME-SPACE SEQUENCE.

LOVE IS AROUND EVERY CORNER, AND JOY FILLS MY ENTIRE WORLD.

I HAVE COME TO THIS PLANET TO LEARN TO LOVE MYSELF MORE, AND TO SHARE THAT LOVE WITH ALL THOSE AROUND ME.

MY PARTNER IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. WE ADORE EACH OTHER.

LIFE IS VERY SIMPLE. WHAT I GIVE OUT COMES BACK TO ME. TODAY I CHOOSE TO GIVE LOVE.

I REJOICE IN THE LOVE I ENCOUNTER EVERY DAY.

I AM COMFORTABLE LOOKING IN THE MIRROR, SAYING, “I LOVE YOU, I REALLY LOVE YOU.”

I NOW DESERVE LOVE, ROMANCE, AND JOY-AND ALL THE GOOD THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER ME.

LOVE IS POWERFUL-YOUR LOVE AND MY LOVE. LOVE BRINGS US PEACE ON EARTH.

LOVE IS ALL THERE IS!

I AM SURROUNDED BY LOVE. ALL IS WELL.

MY HEART IS OPEN. I SPEAK WITH LOVING WORDS.

I HAVE A WONDERFUL LOVER, AND WE ARE BOTH HAPPY AND AT PEACE.

DEEP AT THE CENTER OF MY BEING IS AN INFINITE WELL OF LOVE.

I AM IN A JOYOUS, INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON WHO TRULY LOVES ME.

I COME FROM THE LOVING SPACE OF MY HEART, AND I KNOW THAT LOVE OPENS ALL DOORS.

I AM BEAUTIFUL, AND EVERYBODY LOVES ME. I AM GREETED BY LOVE WHEREVER I GO.

I AM SAFE IN ALL MY RELATIONSHIPS, AND I GIVE AND RECEIVE LOTS OF LOVE.

I ATTRACT ONLY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. I AM ALWAYS TREATED WELL.

I AM VERY THANKFUL FOR ALL THE LOVE IN MY LIFE. I FIND IT EVERYWHERE.

LONG-LASTING, LOVING RELATIONSHIPS BRIGHTEN MY LIFE

When you’re happy with yourself, then all of your other relationships improve, too. A happy person is very attractive to others.Therefore, the first relationship to improve is the one you have with yourself. If you’re looking for more love, then you need to love yourself more. This means no criticism, no complaining, no blaming, no whining, and no choosing to feel lonely. It means being very content with yourself in the present moment and choosing to think thoughts that make you feel good now.
Life always mirrors back to us the feelings we have inside. As you develop your inner sense of love and romance, the right person to share your growing sense of intimacy with will be attracted to you like a magnet
When you’re able to contribute to the fulfilment of your own needs, then you won’t be so needy and co-dependent. It has to do with how much you love yourself. When you truly love who you are, you stay cantered, calm, and secure, and your relationships at home as well as at work are wonderful. You’ll find yourself reacting to various situations and people differently. Matters that once may have been desperately important won’t seem quite as crucial anymore. New people will enter your life, and perhaps some old ones will disappear-this can be kind of scary at first-but it can also be wonderful, refreshing, and exciting.
Be open and receptive, and the Universe will respond to you, bringing you your highest good.

Love and blessings to you all