I have had my guy block me out of no where too (few times) and it's not that things aren't working. It's when he really can't handle it. Think of it as he's struggling with all these emotions That he just can't tell you so he thinks he has to block you but trust me it won't stay that way 😜

There's another post on here about it I'm pretty sure but yeah don't worry! Glad you're doing well and it's working definitely.

Hello

Ping and Manifestation Mavern, thank you so much for your words of encouragement, they really mean a lot!  More than anything, you have kindly confirmed to me that I am on the right track.  Thank you so much.

I have had some time to think about this. Over time I have learned to trust my gut, and although confusion and fear were there underneath that was an underlying sense of calm.  It's difficult to explain.  However, when I meditated to rid myself of the panic, I agree with you both, it is working.  To block someone on anything takes effort, it takes emotion and it takes real feeling.  For him to have gone to those lengths, his feelings are stronger and actually stronger than ever. I know this, because there was no build up to it, no argument no bombarding of texts, it was seemingly out of the blue.  Whether he did it for reaction or to avoid see me online or doing something without him (or with someone else) doesn't matter, because I know it's not negative.  I was beating myself up for texting him afterwards and asking why he did it, and also that I loved him, but actually it's not such a bad thing. It's done now, and I will continue with my practice as usual, it will actually be easier now because I won't be distracted by HIS fb profile or HIS whatsapp status.  I actually feel more powerful than ever and have been able to turn this into a positive easily.

My visualisations were more powerful than ever this morning. I know he is going out tonight and I was easily able to converse with him during the session about him missing me, wishing I was with him and that no other woman comes close.  It felt natural and it felt real.  For my visualisations I usually do them in sequence as though we were actually together, we have sex and then we lie down and talk.  I love that we are never actually apart, because as Neville says, the world within is as real as the world without so I don't actually miss him.  

Thanks for letting me ramble!  I'm remaining calm and thinking about him only in sessions or when I want to close my eyes and be with him and then let it go and do something else

Thanks for your support and  will share with you the next part of my journey!

Hi Rosetinted

Your Aunt really is a wise lady and I also believe she is absolutely correct.  I have manifested my boy back before after a break and he has confirmed times he was thinking of me when my gut told me something but in "reality" it was seemingly the opposite. Thinking about it, this in "reality" seems the most extreme of his actions so it would make sense this is the most extreme of his feelings and emotions.  This ties in nicely with your theory on your guy. I think we can both take heart in the fact that it's working... Keep haunting him lol!  It's working! 

What are your thoughts on the intensity and frequency of visualising the way we do?  Could it be that it's too much for them to handle - hence the running away/blocking.  Would turning down the intensity and frequency be a good thing to do for a period?  I personally love doing the visualisations and will do them at any opportunity lol, but wonder whether it interferes with detachment and allowing.  

Would love to hear thoughts on this!

Last edited by Jag123 (10/29/2016 8:54 am)

That is really interesting!! Given what happened to you it seems there is no problem with frequency and intensity.  Perhaps the issue comes with expectation and attachment?  

I should imagine that the first time you did it - four times a day -  and he contacted you, you had no attachment to the outcome.  It sounds like you did it because it felt good, set your intention and had no expectations either way.  It was more of a suck it and see (pardon the pun )The second time; however, you had an expectation of what you wanted to see because it happened before, even subconsciously?  

I agree it always reaches them, but I also think it's a two way street.  Even if they want to contact us, if we aren't in a position to allow it then law of attraction won't allow it to be so. For example, I really want him to contact me but  if my focus is still on the "want" then I'm not allowing the contact.  Also if you are living as though the wish has been fulfilled, you wouldn't need to check your phone or keep checking to see if it's worked.  I guess the secret is to go into the visualisation full throttle - as often as you like - really enjoy it with a pure intention and then truly get on with your day?  The fact I've been blocked makes this even easier because there's no point in looking at my phone lol!

I adore  that he had an overwhelming urge to talk to you.  I often wonder how the other person feels when it's happening that's a great insight! It also explains why he has backed away.  An overwhelming urge is either given into or run away from....but it's always there.

 

Plus enjoying it too! I sometimes do the meditations and think yknow what even if this is only ever in my imagination, I'm so grateful for that. That's kind of the space I was in a few weeks ago and now this unsatisfactory reality has taken over I'm going to get back there. X